Discuss: issues with your parents

[TooLazyToMakeUp1]

It is very similar to Black Women looking for the Daddy they never had. I am starting to understand why some of these Brothers refuse to date out, they are still looking for their Mother subconsciously and obviously their Mother is Black.

Your type is relentless when it comes to this colorless world bs

 

[Elle Driver]

My mom decided that after living 50 years, 30 years of marriage, and 7 kids she wants to look ratchet smh

My mom wore natural hair for most of my life and now she gets multi color weaves


Watches Love and Hip hop and Real Housewives of Atlanta

Talk like a 17 year old ratchet teenager
My dad just laughs at this shyt but its not fukking funny

And my sisters enable her

Sorry but you kidding right?

 

[Tropical Fantasy]

Sorry but you kidding right?

nope

only person that agrees with me is my 8 year old sister

 

[GoFlipAPack]

I was raised by a single mom and her sisters. shyt was wild. I remember sincerely hating my mom and my brother. I remember giving them looks that I hoped would cause them to burst into flames.

My mom adores my older brother. She told me in sixth grade she couldn't imagine me as an adult but she could imagine my brother as an adult. Id bring home straight A's and she didn't care. My brother didn't graduate high school and she gets excited about anything he does.

I remember graduating high school with honors and seeing all the families with signs for their kids and they got gifts and parties. I didn't even get a congratulations. I over achieved all of my life hoping my mom would say she's proud of me or approve of me. She never did.

My mom gave me a lot of gifts. I appreciate my education very much. But, I'm never satisfied with myself and it's been destructive in my life. I used to think I was fat. Even though I wasn't. I pushed my body to weigh 142 lbs, I'm 5'10 I was passing out all the time. My mom used to tell me I was fat.

My mom calls me to talk about my brother. It's never about me. It's always about him. I remember I was planning to have a baby. My girl was pregnant. We were so excited. I called my mom to tell her and she kept talking about my brother. So I never did. She lost the pregnancy. I wish I could have talked to my mom but again, it's never about me.

My brother tried to stab me to death with a knife. He's a lot bigger than me. I remember seeing blood on the wall and thinking he got me. I was screaming for my mom to call the cops and she didn't. I had to beat this man unconscious.

I still have a stab wound in my hand from where I blocked the knife with my palm. She was more concerned about the broken toilet and shower door he destroyed tossing me through them. Maybe it's because I'm adopted.

- I love My Mom

Your mom sounds like a real piece of shyt.

 

[GoFlipAPack]

My mom decided that after living 50 years, 30 years of marriage, and 7 kids she wants to look ratchet smh

My mom wore natural hair for most of my life and now she gets multi color weaves


Watches Love and Hip hop and Real Housewives of Atlanta

Talk like a 17 year old ratchet teenager
My dad just laughs at this shyt but its not fukking funny

And my sisters enable her

Can your mom twerk?

 

[AJtheOne]

Me and my mother don't get along. We always had our differences since i was little. Out of all my siblings, I'm the only one who will stand up to her and call her out for her nonsense. She has a bitterness/resentment towards me because of that. There's a lot of things that have happened that put our relationship the way it is but they're pretty personal so I won't speak on it. We don't hate eachother but she really pisses me off and gets on my nerve.

 

[K.Dot]

My dad is a hotep, fukk boy, coli level c00n with 2 interracial children(one of them with a dope head cave women), an Asian wife(that he cheats on), doesn't believe in mental problems or psychology, slanders my mother(despite having 3 children with her), has slandered black women and thinks he's in a position to teach me anything.

 

[Pier7]

Only problem I have with my parents, was the academic pressures they put on me. Sometimes I would break down in fear because I didn't get the grades that they wanted. To be honest, even though I had my greatest moments and experience in college; I really didn't even want too go in the first place.

My parents literally threatened to never have anything to do with me if I didn't go to college. Anything under a bachelor's degree and I couldn't talk to them. The pressure was just to much at times. That's why even though I grew up in Queens, I still got a campus dorm. I couldn't take it anymore.

My father only time he said he was proud of me is when I finished school ( Only time).

My mother also has put extreme pressure to get a MS degree or a MBA. Again she keeps threatening to stop talking with me because of it. It's so insufferable at times. I remember those breakdowns, so they could at least acknowledge me.

I know this is very insignificant to other people problems. Just wanted to get this off my chest.

seem like you either got african, indian, or Caribbean parents

 

[BNT]

My Mother is Angel that can do no wrong.

Pops can suck a fat one

 

[Anerdyblackguy]

seem like you either got african, indian, or Caribbean parents

I actually found that offensive. I'm African American. Mom and dad were both born in America ( Brooklyn). I was also born in Brooklyn but raised most of my life in Queens. Sorry!!

 

[Pier7]

I actually found that offensive. I'm African American. Mom and dad were both born in America ( Brooklyn). I was also born in Brooklyn but raised most of my life in Queens. Sorry!!

Thats actually pretty dope. Im AA too. Its just that your story reminds me of most of the struggles my african and Haitian homies went thru growing up.

 

[Anerdyblackguy]

Thats actually pretty dope. Im AA too. Its just that your story reminds me of most of the struggles my african and Haitian homies went thru growing up.

Oh it's cool then. I think it's because my mom is extremely educated that's why she pushes it on us. Sorry if I came off as abrasive. I just get tired of the perception that us AA don't put in work when it comes to education.

 

[GoPro]

Wow, I was just thinking about this before I logged in to the coli. Moms could've been a lot more involved in my education. She pretty much took my word for everything. Barely went to PTAs. And hell, i had to repear my last year of high school cause I barely went.
I should've been 6 certs 6 figures by now.

Pops a piece of shyt. Barely knew him, but apparently I'm nothing like him

 

[Elle Driver]

nope

only person that agrees with me is my 8 year old sister

Is your mom a young mom?

 

[Reginald Noble]

It sucks that so many Coli members parents are full of shyt. No wonder the perspectives on here differ so much from mine.