That's not tough love, this nikka is retarded
Tough love = hard advice that will help you but it isn't easy to hear.
Tough love in this situation would be "Put down the fukking controller, put in work at your job, get some certs, and move up! So that you can look her in the eye as a man and not feel like she is embarrased to be around you"
He's not giving hard advice, he's not giving any advice at all. "Your useless, you're beneath her" is not advice, its the definition of hating
Tough love = hard advice that will help you but it isn't easy to hear.
Tough love in this situation would be "Put down the fukking controller, put in work at your job, get some certs, and move up! So that you can look her in the eye as a man and not feel like she is embarrased to be around you"
He's not giving hard advice, he's not giving any advice at all. "Your useless, you're beneath her" is not advice, its the definition of hating