Dime piece who refuses to go 50/50 explains what she has to offer. Does she make a valid point?

Coco Loco

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I don't understand this argument.

If a man makes $100k and can feed a family of 4, fine. But if the wife can bring in $80k, that's $180k, that's a lot of damn money.


Can someone explain why a woman would be against that?


It's simple, some women don't want to work. They don't care about being a carer woman, having independence, they want to be taken care of

Y'all act like this is a new phenomenon. The issue is it's not feasible for a lot of people

She may find what she's looking for, and she may not
 

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It's crazy how someone who claims to be peacefully single and unbothered would take the time to write paragraphs and have arguments in a thread about something she claims to have emotionally divested from. She had some sensible points in her first post but then let her personal hangups slip in and started making it about her.
Personal hangups matter in this context.
Would you take financial advice from a Nigerian scammer? Any woman who’s in the sex industry has psychological and emotional issues, and it shows if you go through her post history. Most of her posts about black men and black relationships are negative. She’s said single parent households are ok and fathers at necessary. That alone should tell you something is wrong with her.
 

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Post essays about a 50/100 going 50/50 brehs
 

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When you tell a man that he has to pay everything to be with you, you are saying that what you offer is so valuable and precious. And that he's worthless in comparison. And that only you are risking anything.

Emails? Essays? If he's rich enough to afford you if he probably already knows those things :mjlol: same with business advice.

Very few women are worth fitting the entire bill for.
 

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This is ALWAYS a stupid question, btw. It's not a job interview, there's no official job description of a great life partner to this particular man. You can't meaningfully answer how you'll meet a man's needs until you know those needs.

Further, if you have to ask, you as a man haven't done the work you need to be doing on your side. You should already know your needs and be actively looking for the women who can fill them. You should already know the missing piece your life requires to move with maximum efficiency before you start looking.
 
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