Dime piece who refuses to go 50/50 explains what she has to offer. Does she make a valid point?

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When are women going to start saying,

"Nothing. I don't exist to mule for you."

Why do women try to sell themselves as the best slave?

:deadrose:

Men know why the fukk they want women. Women even entertaining the conversation is annoying.
Can you elaborate? What do you think a woman should bring to a healthy relationship? What do you think men are seeking from a partner?
 

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Can you elaborate? What do you think a woman should bring to a healthy relationship? What do you think men are seeking from a partner?
I think 2 whole people should bring themselves instead of looking for someone else to do something for them.

If you have an agenda you'll over look the lack of compatibility to get your need met which is why the vast majority of relationships fail.

People love to date someone lacking so they can have leavage which makes relationships toxic.

If you need nothing from me and I need nothing for you then we can see if we are actually compatible. That's why you see so many unhappy couples. In it for the wrong reasons. If you don't need anything from anyone it's easy to walk away from relationships that don't serve you.

But we live in the age of users and lack of self reflection. That's why these people deserve the relationships they get. How can a user be a victim? I don't feel sorry of either side.
 

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Reminds me of a homegirl I had this discussion with like a decade ago


I asked her what she brought to the table and she said she “brings all that ass to the table” :mjlol:


Respected it but I know it was sarcasm. She’s actually quite the hustler.. if she wasn’t married :beli:

But if I’m not mistaken she’s a stay at home mom too. She hustles, breeds dogs, flips property, etc. Business minded chick that didn’t really use her body to get her business off. I think her dude is lucky af honestly

That will be the only way I would be cool with it I think.
 

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I think 2 whole people should bring themselves instead of looking for someone else to do something for them.

If you have an agenda you'll over look the lack of compatibility to get your need met which is why the vast majority of relationships fail.

People love to date someone lacking so they can have leavage which makes relationships toxic.

If you need nothing from me and I need nothing for you then we can see if we are actually compatible. That's why you see so many unhappy couples. In it for the wrong reasons. If you don't need anything from anyone it's easy to walk away from relationships that don't serve you.
I see but how does that relate to 50/50? is it an agenda or a preference? For instance if I say I like women who are educated, go to work, and would like to look at the family as unit to contribute to and set a good example for our kids. That is something I'd need from a woman I plan on being serious with. 50/50 seems in that aspect to be more of a preference rather than a needing something from someone since both people coming in would be fully capable of sustaining themselves. Don't you think?
I think it falls flat when it is a man only looking to use a woman's income to supplement his own because he cannot survive alone. That is different.
 

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I don't understand this argument.

If a man makes $100k and can feed a family of 4, fine. But if the wife can bring in $80k, that's $180k, that's a lot of damn money.


Can someone explain why a woman would be against that?
Because they want to use their money to shop, trips, etc. What's the point of being married or a monogamous relationship with someone when you have the mindset of his money is our money and my money is my money.
 

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Multiple degrees but is on a dumb Ballon popping show. Explaining why she doesn't go 50/50 and is still single. And will remain so.

:sas2:

If she was a catch she would have been snatched up already by a man with an eye for the future.

Most men hear that no 50/50 nonsense and tune out. These women spending the best years of their lives on this nonsense then reach 40yrs old with broken men as their only takers or young guys looking to fukk.
 

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I’ve never taken a chick out and went 50/50

Me personally I get to know her,see what she’s about ,her mentality etc

THEN take her out ,and it’s all covered by me.If I take you out that means I’m interested and she’s checked most/all the boxes

I Vet women 1st then take em on dates.most women will expose themselves if you talk to em long enough
 

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I’ve never taken a chick out and went 50/50

Me personally I get to know her,see what she’s about ,her mentality etc

THEN take her out ,and it’s all covered by me.If I take you out that means I’m interested and she’s checked most/all the boxes

I Vet women 1st then take em on dates.most women will expose themselves if you talk to em long enough
They aren't talking about paying for dates. They are talking bout being a stay at home wife/mom or a woman who pays no bills and just uses her money on whatever she wants.
 

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Yes. Have you seen the show this is from? Everyone on there says they have like 3 jobs and own a business and lie about what they do with inflated job titles. shyt is sad. Aint nothing wrong with getting a good paying 9-5, investing your savings and enjoying your life. Social media and the desire to stunt on each other really doing a number on people's mental state

I call it "The Birdman syndrome" aka stunting for the sake of animosity.
 

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I see but how does that relate to 50/50? is it an agenda or a preference? For instance if I say I like women who are educated, go to work, and would like to look at the family as unit to contribute to and set a good example for our kids. That is something I'd need from a woman I plan on being serious with. 50/50 seems in that aspect to be more of a preference rather than a needing something from someone since both people coming in would be fully capable of sustaining themselves. Don't you think?
I think it falls flat when it is a man only looking to use a woman's income to supplement his own because he cannot survive alone. That is different.
And I would tell you I am not interested in putting my life on the line and being attached to you for 20+ years to build the family you want.

You're one of the people I'm talking about.
Looking to use a woman to fulfill something you want.

WW3 is about to break out, there is about to be no department of education, racism is about to ramp back up, natural disasters are everywhere and depending on what state you live in she may not even be able to get proper natal care.

But fukk all that, she needs to be able to mule for your snotty nose kids in a fukked up world.

Anyone with sense would not have children with you. No consideration for the world you're even bringing these children into.

God forbid you actually just want a partner that has her own goals and dreams. Straight selfish.
 
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