Did this cac overstep by calling me "brotha"?

[VegetasHairline]

Dear diary

 

[MostReal]

I just read the other thread by @Charlie Hustle

 

[Commish]

Iono OP..

You have a right to be offended, but from your story, I didn't read any mal intent from the guy.

I do get it. It annoys me when non Blks call me boss. But, I usually let it slide. Not worth dying on a hill solo on..

 

[Neuromancer]

Why is your girl embarrassed?

 

[ItsPeople]

If he is super religious, aka Ned Flanders, he may do it out of habit...

Did he say it with the hard R?

 

[summwunn]

. . . Love is Love . . .. ?!?!!!

 

[Don Snow]

Some white people legit dont interact with black people at all and have no idea how to approach us.

Its happened to me a few times and i just put it on ignorance and poor social cues . Just a clumsy way of "being down".

Typically , when a white dude is being hostile or passive aggressive they don't use brotha, it’s normally "buddy" or "pal" or "skippy".

Calling a grown white man “buddy” is like calling them lil homie or scrap they hate it and it’s hilarious

 

[lowkey0z]

interesting thread, gotta put checking a cac for that "brotha" shyt on my to-do-list

shyt reminds me of when my crehette co-worker called me "buddy" one day, i checked her and told her not to call me that - - to this day, we're on the same team, doing daily stand up calls every day and she won't talk to me

another instance where i had an appointment a few months ago and the doctor (breh) walked in on some "what's up buddy" shyt - - told em' not to call me that, nikka hit the and changed the subject