Nah he was a ngga with motion and edge. You have to be to boldly tell your girl "ay leave your job im finna dip and go to TX
AFTER chilling with your family on a vacation WITHOUT inviting her." That kind of impulsiveness and 'not-giving-a-fukkitude' is catnip to women in their 20s. The audacity to do some out of pocket shyt like that as if it's nothing is part of the charm.
Yall need to understand: women in their 20s crave EXCITEMENT and RISK. That decade is when they experience their character growth and turn into the mothers that raise the next generation of men.
Women at that age treat men that appear stable and serious about commitment like this:
"He's nice but he doesn't have aura"
"He's a great guy, he's a catch but he just isn't for me"
"Hes going to make someone very happy but i just dont feel the spark"
It's like going to a casino and playing poker knowing you could lose every last dollar you walked in with. Some women see a man with potential to do that shyt to them and say "nah I'm good" and go for the safe ngga who seems stable and on a good path. Others say "what's the point in playing if there's no chance I'll lose? Where's the excitement in that? Deal them MF cards
!"
And they end up in situations like this. And what lesson has she learned with this going viral?
"I can monetize my Ls, it's not a big deal if it happens again, I could flip that into some clout
"
And she'll do it again. Any man with sense is going to think "I'm not trying to show up in the next song
" because even if the next guy is 'perfect' she'll need to try and fukk it up somehow to recreate the magic this first situation led to.
Taylor swift and drake basically made a career out of having awful taste in partners/being so irritating that they drive away any good people only to turn around and make albums where they act like victims.
I'm just glad she had the decency to block man's face. This shyt is a nightmare scenario. I can't imagine having strangers blowing up my social media calling me all sorts of shyt and pulling up on me in public because they heard my ex's side of the story only and think they know me now.