dealing with modern women is unbearable

[mcdivit85]

I agree...kinda but the entire construct of thot v. housewife is part of the game babygirl...

Just different ways they break down and define us.... to then judge us by our service to them...

A "good woman" isn't good because she cooks cleans and "holds her man down"

A GOOD WOMAN gives, grows, works, reads, enjoys, speaks, has varying interests, passions, social causes, good jokes, loves her own body, etc.......being a good woman has NOTHING to do with a man

Can a man be a "good man" if he does not treat women well? If he possesses all the above and offers nothing to the woman in his life, would you still call him a good man?

Peace

 

[UpAndComing]

Don't marry or date an Americanized Black woman. Problem solved

 

[Jesus]

Don't marry or date an Americanized Black woman. Problem solved

When I get asked about that people always seem to think that's a covert way of being

 

[UpAndComing]

When I get asked about that people always seem to think that's a covert way of being

You usually date Asians?

I have African heritage, so I'm fine with my African women, so sweet and wifey material. Also I love Asians and Mexicans

 

[Barnett114]

 

[Ashley Banks]

For all the women who think that your world should revolve around you and your happiness alone, why would a man want to get with you if you're not concerned about making him happy and his life easier?

I'm truly curious as to what you believe would make that a contract he would want to sign

Peace

what do you offer in a relationship? You want a woman that works, takes care of the kids, takes care of you, cleans the house, and cooks. What are you going to be doing?

 

[PeridotPuss]

Can a man be a "good man" if he does not treat women well? If he possesses all the above and offers nothing to the woman in his life, would you still call him a good man?

Peace

You tried....but I didn't mention anything about either sex treating the other poorly, but I kinda see what you're getting at.....

 

[wavycam]

I've not approached women probably for like the last year plus. Just gave up really... At the end of the day I guess u just have to adapt or cope with being alone.
..i feel it's more a personal problem than anything...meeting women, dating, used to be fun...now it just feels like work almost. I am kind of square though and I stay to myself a lot.

 

[Jesus]

You usually date Asians?

I have African heritage, so I'm fine with my African women, so sweet and wifey material. Also I love Asians and Mexicans

My last two girlfriends were black...I'm open to every race. I've dated more blacks and whites as compared to Asian my current girl is though.

 

[Bless't]

For all the dudes complaining about modern women.... can u give us an example of an experience you had with a modern women u were in a serious relationship

Preferably a recent one

I feel like a lot of dudes in here whining aren't dealing with women period.

I'll bite.

The last lady I dated was 26, worked in the financial industry, made 6 figures, pretty, smart, generally well put together.

We got along great.

First 2 weeks of knowing her, she made dinner twice a week. I enjoyed chopping it up with her as she cooked. We listened to music, conversed over a glasses of wine and genuinely had a great time.

She knew what she was doing because after those initial first few weeks, her cooking became super rare (and cooking isnt that big of a deal to me but I would like my girl to put some effort in here and there).

We would go out ALL the time following those first few weeks. I'd pay for meals, she'd pay for meals. shyt was kosher.

Then about 4 months into the relationship she didnt feel I was spending enough time with her. We'd spend every weekend together and a weeknight here and there. I liked having nights to myself though. Sheehs.

She became home sick (she's not from where we lived) and expressed how she felt she wasnt getting "notebook" love from me. She felt like she was entitled to some pristine version of life because she worked hard to get where she was. I applauded her hard work all the time. I found that attractive. It was the fact she couldnt be humble about it.

She was attention starved, socially spoiled (because of her career/looks) and never quite satisfied with what she had... whether it was job wise, love wise, friend wise... whatever.

Now, she had relationship problems previous to ours but I chose to ignore those few red flags in the beginning. Live and learn I suppose.

She wasnt a bad person. She was simply a modern woman who ultimately wasnt grounded enough for me to continue dating.

 

[ryshy]

I'm working on the art of gettin into girls heads

Like, when they think about u, but u never think about them type shyt. It works

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

what do you offer in a relationship? You want a woman that works, takes care of the kids, takes care of you, cleans the house, and cooks. What are you going to be doing?

When there is intruder in the house @Juicy

Who do females run to?

 

[Ashley Banks]

When there is intruder in the house @Juicy

Who do females run to?

Are there intruders in the house everyday multiple times a day?

 

[Jesus]

Know yourself...know your worth...word to Drake.

Most people don't have self-awareness...

 

[#SOG_soldier]

Heh same shyt different thread

I think for me it's quite simple I'm attracted to a woman's character. Let's just say your ass,t*ts and your looks in general will one day deteriorate so the sexiest thing to me has always been the mind so if you're dumb I won't waste my time on you no matter how good you look because being a bad bytch is quite frankly temporary.

Hold this neg for being a fakkit