Why do you even give a fukk about what people here think about women? Seriously answer that first and foremost. If I took most of what women here said seriously I'd lose my goddamn mind. The coli doesn't represent real life lmao. Know your worth...know it doesn't rely on what a man/woman thinks and keep it pushing. @CinnaSlim just fukking said you attract what you are.Never said that of course attraction id important but dudes are acting like its black or white. Most people havr average looks and can fall in the range of cute to handsome.
Some peope have standards on looks that they cant meet and want to complain about women within these stringent standards what the hell?
Damn this thread blew up.
There it is.Taking half of what? If your significant other has to work just as much as you do, and help pay bills you are NOT providing like the traditional husband, so why does she have to act like the traditional housewife?
There it is.
You either do full traditional, or get with the times.
Personally, I want to get married to a woman who has high career aspirations, same as me, and we can go 50-50 on responsibilities.
I won't tolerate fukkery, and she won't either.
That's a good modern marriage, and seems worthwhile in my opinion.
Why do you even give a fukk about what people here think about women? Seriously answer that first and foremost. If I took most of what women here said seriously I'd lose my goddamn mind. The coli doesn't represent real life lmao. Know your worth...know it doesn't rely on what a man/woman thinks and keep it pushing. @CinnaSlim just fukking said you attract what you are.
There have been many threads on here about why some men here think fat women shouldn't have high standards and many female posters rightfully said that they had a right to want what they wanted but I'd bet one of my certs that you never went in there talking about, "Some peope have standards on looks that they cant meet and want to complain about women within these stringent standards what the hell?"
Truth be told @DrX vented his frustrations and women and other male posters came up in here to do it as well because misery loves company.
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I don't trust people who say they don't "care about other people's opinions," especially womenOh no silly everything we do is utimately meant for the male gaze and consumption.
Although, sidebar, I don't think there's anything wrong with keeping yourself up for your man and looking good for his desire. But confidence kind of scares some men because it means you don't give a fukk about their opinions you're living life and that goes against everything they so rigidly believe in.
Its not so much about caring what people think...its exchanging. The great thing about anonymity (or pseudo anonymity) is peoplw sharing some of their innermost feelings from their wins to their losses.Why do you even give a fukk about what people here think about women? Seriously answer that first and foremost. If I took most of what women here said seriously I'd lose my goddamn mind. The coli doesn't represent real life lmao. Know your worth...know it doesn't rely on what a man/woman thinks and keep it pushing. @CinnaSlim just fukking said you attract what you are.
There have been many threads on here about why some men here think fat women shouldn't have high standards and man female posters rightfully said that they had a right to want what they wanted but I'd bet one of my certs that you never went in there talking about, "Some peope have standards on looks that they cant meet and want to complain about women within these stringent standards what the hell?"
Truth be told @DrX vented his frustrations and women and other male posters came up in here to do it as well because misery loves company.
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This sounds like resentment. Another woman's (or man's, for that matter) confidence level or sense of entitlement doesnt have to faze you. If it does, that's an issue from within....not without. Choose folks who are compatible with you....water seeks its own level...but don't be mad if you end up in the shallow end
nikka seem weird too me....like hes in that open relationship shyt ....me, personally if im dating a chick and spending $$$ expect sex period....dating is corny.....u just want free dinner..admit it?
not really...im not saying yall gotta move in together but damn...but after a couple dates yall should know whats up
and also if im spending 25 bucks at dennys and catching some stupid kevin hart movie for 20
i expect to get laid period....thats only fair
you can marry my little sister
she won't cheat on you, I'll beat her up
fukked up world...more no good nikka trust me I'm 31 and it's just out here. I be seeing nice woman with the lamest of men. Trust me it's a sad thing to witness as well.
Maybe broaden what you would like beyond p*ssy, food, and a clean house. Women do have more to offer and you have the right to desire it. Then you will have no more need to harbor your resentment and will in turn attract higher quality women because you have higher quality standards and are thus having a higher quality life.
Also, marriage is not required to survive or for adult life in 2015 for males or females so maybe approach your marriage desires and criteria from a different outlook. Many people believe these days marriage is about and sustained on "love" i think that is very true but "love" is very very rare honestly....so the vast majority of relationships at some point end whether they advance to marriage or not.
If you haven't discovered much beyond looks and sex that you enjoy about women then like I said, I'm guessing you don't get a lot of play, really BEING with a woman when she has let her guard fully down is usually an EXPERIENCE, they have feelings and desires, mood changes, often vivid dreams and strong intution, wild sex fantasies, deep vulnerability, wisdom, you guys love the food because a woman in love cooking for HER MAN she puts herself, her hopes, into that plate. There is a lot I think you haven't had the opportunity to experience (or it least it sounds that way). I would just caution holding on to your current outlook I think it could limit your experiences.