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Never said that of course attraction id important but dudes are acting like its black or white. Most people havr average looks and can fall in the range of cute to handsome.

Some peope have standards on looks that they cant meet and want to complain about women within these stringent standards what the hell?
Why do you even give a fukk about what people here think about women? Seriously answer that first and foremost. If I took most of what women here said seriously I'd lose my goddamn mind. The coli doesn't represent real life lmao. Know your worth...know it doesn't rely on what a man/woman thinks and keep it pushing. @CinnaSlim just fukking said you attract what you are.

There have been many threads on here about why some men here think fat women shouldn't have high standards and many female posters rightfully said that they had a right to want what they wanted but I'd bet one of my certs that you never went in there talking about, "Some peope have standards on looks that they cant meet and want to complain about women within these stringent standards what the hell?"

Truth be told @DrX vented his frustrations and women and other male posters came up in here to do it as well because misery loves company.

Not replying anymore :whew:
 
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Taking half of what? :laff: If your significant other has to work just as much as you do, and help pay bills you are NOT providing like the traditional husband, so why does she have to act like the traditional housewife?
There it is.
You either do full traditional, or get with the times.
Personally, I want to get married to a woman who has high career aspirations, same as me, and we can go 50-50 on responsibilities.
I won't tolerate fukkery, and she won't either.
That's a good modern marriage, and seems worthwhile in my opinion.
 
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There it is.
You either do full traditional, or get with the times.
Personally, I want to get married to a woman who has high career aspirations, same as me, and we can go 50-50 on responsibilities.
I won't tolerate fukkery, and she won't either.
That's a good modern marriage, and seems worthwhile in my opinion.


...as long as the relationship anit 50/50. Then again I'm traditional guy so :yeshrug:
 
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Why do you even give a fukk about what people here think about women? Seriously answer that first and foremost. If I took most of what women here said seriously I'd lose my goddamn mind. The coli doesn't represent real life lmao. Know your worth...know it doesn't rely on what a man/woman thinks and keep it pushing. @CinnaSlim just fukking said you attract what you are.

There have been many threads on here about why some men here think fat women shouldn't have high standards and many female posters rightfully said that they had a right to want what they wanted but I'd bet one of my certs that you never went in there talking about, "Some peope have standards on looks that they cant meet and want to complain about women within these stringent standards what the hell?"

Truth be told @DrX vented his frustrations and women and other male posters came up in here to do it as well because misery loves company.

Not replying anymore :whew:

...is okay for me to admit I was just in for some of the fukkery :lolbron:
 

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Oh no silly everything we do is utimately meant for the male gaze and consumption.

Although, sidebar, I don't think there's anything wrong with keeping yourself up for your man and looking good for his desire. But confidence kind of scares some men because it means you don't give a fukk about their opinions you're living life and that goes against everything they so rigidly believe in.
I don't trust people who say they don't "care about other people's opinions," especially women :usure:
It boils down to "I want to do hard drugs, "hoe around," or get into something illegal."
It rarely means, "I want to grow and move at my own pace without the male gaze, and others influencing me."
But yeah, confidence definitely scares men.
 

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Why do you even give a fukk about what people here think about women? Seriously answer that first and foremost. If I took most of what women here said seriously I'd lose my goddamn mind. The coli doesn't represent real life lmao. Know your worth...know it doesn't rely on what a man/woman thinks and keep it pushing. @CinnaSlim just fukking said you attract what you are.

There have been many threads on here about why some men here think fat women shouldn't have high standards and man female posters rightfully said that they had a right to want what they wanted but I'd bet one of my certs that you never went in there talking about, "Some peope have standards on looks that they cant meet and want to complain about women within these stringent standards what the hell?"

Truth be told @DrX vented his frustrations and women and other male posters came up in here to do it as well because misery loves company.

Not replying anymore :whew:
Its not so much about caring what people think...its exchanging. The great thing about anonymity (or pseudo anonymity) is peoplw sharing some of their innermost feelings from their wins to their losses.

I have leaned a lot of site so when you engage with people its not me being desparate for their approbal its to pick their brain. From there... There is dialogue and we both take something positive to apply it in our lives rather than talking about kims asses and how many girls you sexed last night.

Some people are here for debauchery only and others are here to interact with a larger platform of people. If people contribute to discussion no one would want to come to the coli.
 

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This sounds like resentment. Another woman's (or man's, for that matter) confidence level or sense of entitlement doesnt have to faze you. If it does, that's an issue from within....not without. Choose folks who are compatible with you....water seeks its own level...but don't be mad if you end up in the shallow end

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nikka seem weird too me....like hes in that open relationship shyt ....me, personally if im dating a chick and spending $$$ expect sex period....dating is corny.....u just want free dinner..admit it?


not really...im not saying yall gotta move in together but damn...but after a couple dates yall should know whats up

and also if im spending 25 bucks at dennys and catching some stupid kevin hart movie for 20

i expect to get laid period....thats only fair

why are you doing all that going out on dates if all you want is sex? why not just let the broad know straight up. if she's down she's down, if she's not you find someone else who is. all that going out on date shyt is misleading the broad
 

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Maybe broaden what you would like beyond p*ssy, food, and a clean house. Women do have more to offer and you have the right to desire it. Then you will have no more need to harbor your resentment and will in turn attract higher quality women because you have higher quality standards and are thus having a higher quality life.

Also, marriage is not required to survive or for adult life in 2015 for males or females so maybe approach your marriage desires and criteria from a different outlook. Many people believe these days marriage is about and sustained on "love" i think that is very true but "love" is very very rare honestly....so the vast majority of relationships at some point end whether they advance to marriage or not.

If you haven't discovered much beyond looks and sex that you enjoy about women then like I said, I'm guessing you don't get a lot of play, really BEING with a woman when she has let her guard fully down is usually an EXPERIENCE, they have feelings and desires, mood changes, often vivid dreams and strong intution, wild sex fantasies, deep vulnerability, wisdom, you guys love the food because a woman in love cooking for HER MAN she puts herself, her hopes, into that plate. There is a lot I think you haven't had the opportunity to experience (or it least it sounds that way). I would just caution holding on to your current outlook I think it could limit your experiences.

Not once you said anything about your selflessness, your personality, or even your knowledge. All I hear is excuses, excuses, excuses, about how you not a maid or a servant to your husband and your traditional duties that you neglect. All you want a man to do is trick on you while you do nothing but complain and say simple shyt like a clean house or a cooked meal is "slavery."
 
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