Dealing with kids with mental/physical disabilities

[Poh SIti Dawn]

Why the fukk should the woman be the only one making decisions when it comes to childbearing? If I'm going to devote my resources/time to a kid you best believe I'm going to have a say in whether or not he/she is born. And how many chicks in 2013 with careers are willing to let the man be the "authority of the household"?

Because it's her body, and a lot; honestly what kind girls do you nikkas really be talking to? Just because you have a career don't mean shyt, you're still going to need someone whether you admit it or not. It sounds like a lot of you dudes just aren't respected.

An example being my cousin, career woman, has 2 kids, made over 140k a year, quit work to take care of the kids, her husband makes more, but that's irrelevant, he's still the head of the house when it comes to disciplining the kids and making sure there's order within the home. It's an unspoken agreement.

 

[Ronnie Lott]

she wouldn't be my girlfriend anymore

 

[havoc]

I personally know two women who have special need children. One of the lady has a blind daughter and other has a child with mental syndrome. Both of them have a difficult time raising their children. I see their struggle and I salute them for sticking through the ordeal of raising their kids without help. As for me, I don't think I'm about that life. If I ever end up with a kid with a disability, I would send him to the disability home and visit him on my off days from work.

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

Why should it not be partly the fathers decision, when it took both man and woman to make the child? The child is just as much the mother as it is the fathers.

Because the mother nurtures the child, carries the child for 9 months, breast feeds the child, has the child, I mean the father helped create it, but besides impregnating her he has little to no involvement with the birth of the child besides going out and getting the woman ice cream and rubbing her feet.

 

[NotaPAWG]

she wouldn't be my girlfriend anymore

 

[Rocket Scientist]

I use to work with kids like that.One thing about those kids,alot of people may feel sorry for them,those kids are just as normal.They want YOU to treat them normal.If they do something out of order they want you to check them.When they feel you are feeling sorry for them they act out more.Dont think they arent smart either.They like music,sports just us normal folks.Cant look down on anybody no matter what their disability is.

 

[Ronnie Lott]

Because the mother nurtures the child, carries the child for 9 months, breast feeds the child, has the child, I mean the father helped create it, but besides impregnating her he has little to no involvement with the birth of the child besides going out and getting the woman ice cream and rubbing her feet.

 

[Spoonz]

This site is full of fukking morons I wished your moms would of aborted your dumbasses or fukking drowned you

 

[MikelArteta]

if someone gets raped and then to add on pregnant, why would you stay with them? They are not suitable at that moment to be in a relationship, I would be a friend and be there as she gets through that ordeal with therapy etc. but to continue to date and be in a relationship?

 

[Ronnie Lott]

if someone gets raped and then to add on pregnant, why would you stay with them? They are not suitable at that moment to be in a relationship, I would be a friend and be there as she gets through that ordeal with therapy etc. but to continue to date and be in a relationship?

So u would divorce your wife if she got raped?

Yeah right! When did u start fam?

 

[NotaPAWG]

if someone gets raped and then to add on pregnant, why would you stay with them? They are not suitable at that moment to be in a relationship, I would be a friend and be there as she gets through that ordeal with therapy etc. but to continue to date and be in a relationship?

Uh.. I don't know, maybe because you love them? Say you got married and that's your wife.. you're just gonna leave her?

 

[MikelArteta]

So u would divorce your wife if she got raped?

Yeah right! When did u start fam?

you said girlfriend, of course wife is different

Uh.. I don't know, maybe because you love them? Say you got married and that's your wife.. you're just gonna leave her?

Love? I only love my parents, grandma, sister, brother in law and nieces.

A real man only loves a woman twice and both of mine have been wasted.

If I'm married that's a different situation.

 

[havoc]

Becauseeeeee it's not the fathers decision. I believe that a marriage (never been married before, too young) is ideally headed by the male, he makes all of the decisions, is the authority of the household, and the woman is somewhat submissive, because he's her protector, but there's that slight instance in a relationship where the roles are switched, the man has no option, all he can do is support her if he wants the relationship to continue, and child bearing is the instance that I speak of.

There are men who invested a lot of their time to pursue their women who are carrying their child, and put in mad work to sexually please their women. Also, deal with a lot of hard times to maintain a relationship with woman. All that sh!t they have to deal with in a relationship give them the right to take part in making a decision on a child bearing.

if someone gets raped and then to add on pregnant, why would you stay with them? They are not suitable at that moment to be in a relationship, I would be a friend and be there as she gets through that ordeal with therapy etc. but to continue to date and be in a relationship?

You forgot to add a disclaimer:

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

There are men who invested a lot of their time to pursue their women who are carrying their child, and put in mad work to sexually please their women. Also, deal with a lot of hard times to maintain a relationship with woman. All that sh!t they have to deal with in a relationship give them the right to take part in making a decision on a child bearing.
You forgot to add a disclaimer:

Don't know why I'm even going back to back with you nikkas if you don't agree with me then neg me. Ain't no reason to even reply to me and vice versa, I ain't changing my mind and neither are you.

 

[laughattack]

That's what I was thinkin too. KIds with cerebal paulsy seem to be miserable and live a life full of suffering. The shyt I saw today was pretty sad

Not true. The responses in this thread are what's sad.


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