Dealing with a s/o thats extremely busy

[DuncanWebayama]

Some people are more needy and that can bug those that aren't and need their space. Trust, loyalty and commitment has little to do with how many times you see each other in a week. You can see your girl 4 days out of 7 but be with a different chick the other 3 days vs seeing her twice a week but not cheating on her the other 5 days out of the week.

It's about finding a balance and time to see each other based on what works for the BOTH of you...so if once a week is perfect for her, but not enough for him, then yes, she can compromise and try for twice a week, at least...but if he needs to see her 6 days a week then it will eventually become a problem in their relationship.

What the hell does the bold mean??? Trust loyalty and committment have everything to do with everything. It's not about how many times you see each other, but communication is mucho important. And if you are making more time to do your hair/watch tv/read then to at least pick up the phone once a day and call someone, then you deserve to be lonely.

Once a week? Really?

 

[MicIsGod]

This is weird, me and my female friend were in the EXACT same situation with our s/o's being too busy and it effecting the relationship. Me and my girl lived about 40 minutes apart too, didn't mind drivin to atlanta to see her when it was possible. And she didn't have a license either I wound up havin to break up with her because I really cant deal with it. Got to the point where it had been about a month since I had seen her and she's tryin to have me settle with seeing her 1 weekend out of a month. But this chick went to Ga state No way I wasn't sharing that I didn't wanna play myself so I had to let her go. If you see that the lack of time spent together is bothering you significantly more than it is bothering her, then you should probably just let her go. Like everyone has said, you make time for what you wanna make time for. Its not a coincidence that since we broke up that we haven't talked for like a month bytches move on without telling you sometimes breh.

 

[Poetical Poltergeist]

nah breh, when you found that one fish that's different from the others you wanna keep it, don't give up so easily breh.

Well if she one then she the one. Do what u gotta do to get her wifed up. Much luck.

 

[Desirous]

What the hell does the bold mean??? Trust loyalty and committment have everything to do with everything. It's not about how many times you see each other, but communication is mucho important. And if you are making more time to do your hair/watch tv/read then to at least pick up the phone once a day and call someone, then you deserve to be lonely.

Once a week? Really?

The bold means that trust, loyalty and commitment don't go hand in hand with the amount of hours you spend with a person, but how you treat that person in general when you're with them and even when you're not.

 

[Kenyan West]

fall for the okee doke, brehs.

Busy is code word for you're low tier. Aint none of these extra average strumpets out chea nowadays truly busy. Always be in motion. Keep it movin'.

 

[innocentdevil]

There are way too many outlets to communicate with your S/O when you have some free time, but can't see them in person

talk to her and let her know that this is bothering you

 

[wire28]

yeah i know i might be sharing

might?

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Shoot thats a good thing.More busier the less naggying she would do.If she is your girl and she doesnt have it in her to communicate with you,then its a problem.All this thinking you doing about her,she isnt doing the same.Your literally an Option to her,not a priority.Once your an option to a woman its a wrap just take ya L.You a young buck it should be to the point that when she calls you have to figure out who she is,because you been so busy that your not thinking about her.Outside of Trust and Respect, COMMUNCATION is a key in a relationship :kanye:

 

[Soundbwoy]

Introversion has nothing to do with the want/need to spend time with your s/o... my husband is an introvert, but he still finds time to send me a text when I'm at work to tell me he loves me and makes sure we have "us" time, even though we're both busy people. I appreciate that, because it lets me know that even though things can be hectic (and they generally are during the week for us), he's still thinking about us as a couple, and I do the same.

You said she doesn't have a driver's license... how old are you two, if you don't mind me asking?

we.both.30,she.will.get.it.in.a.couple.of.months

 

[Michael's Black Son]

sharing much?

 

[Wise]

Respect people who find time for you in their busy schedule but love people who never look at their schedule when you need them

 

[DuncanWebayama]

The bold means that trust, loyalty and commitment don't go hand in hand with the amount of hours you spend with a person, but how you treat that person in general when you're with them and even when you're not.

if you took up and agreed to be in a relationship you should build your communication and stop living like a god dam loner.

 

[Desirous]

if you took up and agreed to be in a relationship you should build your communication and stop living like a god dam loner.

I didn't say not to communicate...different things work for different people and everyone has different expectations. I wouldn't be mad at my man if we saw each other once a week...if we could do more often, that's cool, too...but I know I also enjoy alone time so I wouldn't even get in a relationship with someone who wants a 24/7 companion...I need some personal space, too.

 

[Arishok]

I didn't say not to communicate...different things work for different people and everyone has different expectations. I wouldn't be mad at my man if we saw each other once a week...if we could do more often, that's cool, too...but I know I also enjoy alone time so I wouldn't even get in a relationship with someone who wants a 24/7 companion...I need some personal space, too.

I don't think anyone wants to be around someone 24/7, I also wouldn't mind going once a week (say like we set up a date night every Friday or Saturday night etc.) seeing each other but I'm going to need some form of communication with him at least 4-5 days of the week. It don't even have to be a phone call just a simple "Good Morning babe, have a nice day!" or "Good night, hope you had a great day!" is enough for me. Let me KNOW that you're thinking about me. I want to feel like you want me, not that I'm an option.

 

[MAKAVELI25]

A man should never be the one complaining that the couple never spend enough time together. Woman that genuinely like/love you are easy to spot if you're paying attention, if your relationship isn't as big of a commitment for her as it is for you then its time to break up