deal breakers with single parents..

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Really?? No lets be real...u saying most the desirable females at 27 do not have kids?? In a world where women wanna be married n in love by then, Really??


Please stop with the n onsense lets be real hood chicks n not so hood chicks pop out babys everyday b.. n nikkas wit records is impregnating mist of em!!

I know plenty of women around 27 with no kids. They're out there.

You aren't going to find them in clubs and other spots. Join any young professionals organization. Join your local chapter of the Urban League, NAACP, etc. You'll find plenty of solid women in those settings.
 

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Not all girls in their 20s have kids man. And if they do in your area, why don't you date girls younger....like around 22, 23 or 24?


nikka wut a 22 23 24 yr old gon do for me?? Ibgot a good job..own my crib fuc dat! Lmaoo si.omma work hard to let a young bytch eat off the fruit of my labor?:heh:
 

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its different for single dads
how many single dads have custody? few if not rare. Most dads only see thier kids on weekends maybe a few hours or maybe they take them for the weekend, plus a single dad isn't viewed as a package or baggage, the only thing a woman dating a single dad has to worry about is the drama from the single mom, or him smashing the single mom.
Actually, I've been involved with someone who has full custody of his child...the child's mother wasn't that involved...he takes his son to every basketball practice, game, to/from school, etc. It's refreshing to see a man put his child first, even before himself.
 

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Really?? No lets be real...u saying most the desirable females at 27 do not have kids?? In a world where women wanna be married n in love by then, Really??


Please stop with the n onsense lets be real hood chicks n not so hood chicks pop out babys everyday b.. n nikkas wit records is impregnating mist of em!!
I'm 31 and no kids.

I'm sure someone will swoop in and say I'm not desirable lol but anyway, thought I'd point that out.
 

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Actually, I've been involved with someone who has full custody of his child...the child's mother wasn't that involved...he takes his son to every basketball practice, game, to/from school, etc. It's refreshing to see a man put his child first, even before himself.

like is aid a single dad isn't viewed as baggage or a package.

only thing you have to worry about is him hitting baby moms
 

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Really?? No lets be real...u saying most the desirable females at 27 do not have kids?? In a world where women wanna be married n in love by then, Really??


Please stop with the n onsense lets be real hood chicks n not so hood chicks pop out babys everyday b.. n nikkas wit records is impregnating mist of em!!


the majority of women do not have kids, like I said i guess all you have is a pof account or something, the majority of women at every age are CHILDLESS
 

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You'd rather have a single mom and some other dude's seed(s) eat off the fruit of your labor, breh?

No I rather the right woman kid or not.. but a chick below 25 is more than likley indesisive bout life..at 27 they lived they know wut they want and aint no one changing their mind
 

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one of the broads i WAS dealing with had a son and dude acted like a lil fakkit
this nikka cried about everything
she bought that nikka anything he wanted to shut him up

i wanted to toss his lil bytch ass out the fukking window


aint you a 6 figure it army breh

why you still messing with single moms
 

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I'm 31 and no kids.

I'm sure someone will swoop in and say I'm not desirable lol but anyway, thought I'd point that out.

OK. That makes sense. You're 31...right on the edge of the cliff before falling off.

You're having to take what you can get at this point.

A woman in her prime, with options, isn't taking most single dads seriously. Let's be real.

Just as a single man, in his prime with options, isn't taking most single moms seriously.
 

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like is aid a single dad isn't viewed as baggage or a package.

only thing you have to worry about is him hitting baby moms

It is a package because that means less attention and time for his s.o. and not every female can handle that...the kid ALWAYS comes first...before your birthday, before anything...so if you can understand that, even though sometimes it's annoying, then it's doable. People without kids don't have to worry about those kinds of responsibilities, so they're used to getting 100% (or at least close to it) attention all the time. It is ideal to date someone without a kid, but if the person is worth it, then I can put some of my needs aside to allow him to be a great father....because that's what he should be doing.
 
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