deal breakers with single parents..

[mamba]

A man who isn't involved in his child's life and would rather chase after women than take care of his...that's my deal breaker...shows me that he doesn't put his family/blood first.

Why date a single dad to begin with? There are plenty of single men roaming around.

Men with kids should date women with kids and vice versa.

 

[Silkk]

Im not trolling(I miss real trolling not this 2k13 shock post/thread bs)... no really.if ur 25 plus mst people hava a child by then, I.cant not.deal with em cuz some of em are bad as fukk.. n I dont want to deal with let the.dad be a dad bs". People saying "being a.single parent is a dealbreaker" cant be my age or gotta have stron will.. im a weak nikka yall

Better start fukking you some young hoes then

 

[Desirous]

Why date a single dad to begin with? There are plenty of single men roaming around.

Men with kids should date women with kids and vice versa.

I'm not opposed to a man who has a child. I would date him for the same reason I'd date a man without a child: depends on whether he is a good person, honest, intelligent, committed, etc. I don't think that by him having a child that defines him as a person.

 

[MikelArteta]

That's right, man. I know tons of childless women. There's no way I'd choose a woman with kids over the many childless options out there.

The woman with kids would literally have to be the "perfect" woman. And even that would probably not be enough for me to even entertain the idea.

The only men who feel single mothers are there only options are:

1) Surrounded by rats
2) Not good catches themselves (criminal records, poor education, etc.)

There's no way a man with even the basics going for himself (career, car, own place, etc.) would consider entering a serious relationship (with the potential for marriage) with a single mother.

if i was a single father id prob date a single mom, or like you said she was perfect and was widowed.

Plus imagine dating someone who communicates with their ex? an ex that nutted in her raw, an ex that shares a soul tie with her in a kid, everytime she looks at that kid she thinks of that dude and no matter if she "hates him" or hes a "a$$hole" a part of her will always want him and he will always have access to that puzz.

And theres nothing you can do or say about it because her child comes first then the ex then you

 

[MikelArteta]

Why date a single dad to begin with? There are plenty of single men roaming around.

Men with kids should date women with kids and vice versa.

its different for single dads
how many single dads have custody? few if not rare. Most dads only see thier kids on weekends maybe a few hours or maybe they take them for the weekend, plus a single dad isn't viewed as a package or baggage, the only thing a woman dating a single dad has to worry about is the drama from the single mom, or him smashing the single mom.

 

[Malik]

Im not trolling(I miss real trolling not this 2k13 shock post/thread bs)... no really.if ur 25 plus mst people hava a child by then, I.cant not.deal with em cuz some of em are bad as fukk.. n I dont want to deal with let the.dad be a dad bs". People saying "being a.single parent is a dealbreaker" cant be my age or gotta have stron will.. im a weak nikka yall

Not all girls in their 20s have kids man. And if they do in your area, why don't you date girls younger....like around 22, 23 or 24?

 

[mamba]

its different for single dads
how many single dads have custody? few if not rare. Most dads only see thier kids on weekends maybe a few hours or maybe they take them for the weekend, plus a single dad isn't viewed as a package or baggage, the only thing a woman dating a single dad has to worry about is the drama from the single mom, or him smashing the single mom.

Fair enough.

But, I still think single parents should try to date single parents. We've got to balance this crap out and put an end to all this foolishness.

 

[mamba]

Not all girls in their 20s have kids man. And if they do in your area, why don't you date girls younger....like around 22, 23 or 24?

Yep. Younger women are always an option.

 

[MikelArteta]

Fair enough.

But, I still think single parents should try to date single parents. We've got to balance this crap out and put an end to all this foolishness.

i agree
but many single dads wont even date single moms

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

the worst is when the chick has a son
cause 9/10 he gone act like a lil bytch and she prolly wont discipline the lil nugga

the daughter are normally well behaved tho

but them sons

 

[mamba]

One of my uncles (a single man with no kids at the time) wifed up a single mom with three kids back in the day.

He had a good career. They later ended up divorcing, but not before that woman popped out a kid for him. He later remarried a woman without kids.

But, now that I look back at it, that was the biggest SIMP move I've witnessed to date.

I respect my uncle. But, I still look at him with the to this day.

 

[Chesirecatdaddy]

Just want to know what exactly deter you guys from persuing a relationship with a single parent...

Im 27 and most people around my age have at least 1 child, I prefer single parent that has no contact with thier babyfather. But if ur child is ugly im done im out!! bytch is 50% responsible for birthing that ugly mistake n I aint got the patience to see if it s an ugly duckling. It just lemme kno wut she'll contribute if I nut in her...

Any other dealbreakers/advise?

yeah them having a kid is a dealbreaker

 

[supanegro]

That's right, man. I know tons of childless women. There's no way I'd choose a woman with kids over the many childless options out there.

The woman with kids would literally have to be the "perfect" woman. And even that would probably not be enough for me to even entertain the idea.

The only men who feel single mothers are there only options are:

1) Surrounded by rats
2) Not good catches themselves (criminal records, poor education, etc.)

There's no way a man with even the basics going for himself (career, car, own place, etc.) would consider entering a serious relationship (with the potential for marriage) with a single mother.

Really?? No lets be real...u saying most the desirable females at 27 do not have kids?? In a world where women wanna be married n in love by then, Really??


Please stop with the n onsense lets be real hood chicks n not so hood chicks pop out babys everyday b.. n nikkas wit records is impregnating mist of em!!

 

[mamba]

the worst is when the chick has a son
cause 9/10 he gone act like a lil bytch and she prolly wont discipline the lil nugga

the daughter are normally well behaved tho

but them sons

Especially if she's told that little dude he's the man of the house.

You come in there and he sees you as a threat. This is especially true for older male children.

The daughter can be touble, too, especially if she has a close relationship with her real father.

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

Especially if she's told that little dude he's the man of the house.

You come in there and he sees you as a threat. This is especially true for older male children.

The daughter can be touble, too, especially if she has a close relationship with her real father.

one of the broads i WAS dealing with had a son and dude acted like a lil fakkit
this nikka cried about everything
she bought that nikka anything he wanted to shut him up

i wanted to toss his lil bytch ass out the fukking window