Dating your bestfriend?

Wildin

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Do it, breh. I can tell you some success stories, but you have to create your own. You know yourself and her better than we do. Dont let us talk you into or out of what you need to do in your life.
 

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Go' ahead imo your woman is suppose to be your best friend anyways. But man foreal take it seriously, I mean really be in the relationship and committed.
 

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If you don't plan to be in a committed relationship with her, don't do it.
 

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There is a world of topics that men and women can relate/agree on that is worlds away from fukking bytches, sports and partying? Politics, career, financial goals, if you're in college you major...That's all I can think of at the top of my head.

You are not attracted to everyone you meet (major props if you think all woman are attracted to you). That doesn't mean you can't chop it up. If all you want to talk about is shyt you can relate to any random man on the street with then I'd have to say you're crazy.

Your absolutely correct but this nikka said "best friend". Unless he was using some hyperbole when I think of best friend I envision somebody you enjoy doing the things Ive said and some of the things you mentioned. Now if he would have used the term "best female friend" , "close friend", or even just "friend" I would have implied a different relationship dynamic.
 
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:yeshrug: you live and you learn man, go for the experience.
Me and a chick I was close with (from around age 10) just randomly started fukking, she came over to my crib one night (not unusual, we stayed at eachothers place often) and while watching a movie we just went at it.
After a while we went our separate ways, we stay in contact from time to time but shes definitely not the friend I had before.

So altogether, she'll be the best girlfriend of your life for a while but expect the fun ride to end :whoo:
Well put man
 

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Sarah sounds like wife matrial to me. The way you talked about her in this post, makes it seem like you're in love with her. :manny:

If the opportunity presented itself, would you wife?

Yeah you would…

Lol nah nikka. She's still a female and has her own issues, as do all females. She's just beyond most of the bullshyt. She's cute, but I've known her for so long that I don't think I could ever have any sort of attraction for her.




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The odds that you remain best friends with her well into adulthood are slim. If you feel strongly enough you might as well try it if there are signs she is interested as well. No need to wreck the relationship but you are her likely won't be tight for long.
 
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