Dating your bestfriend?

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

never have. and i doubt i ever will. besides, i find it hard to consider anyone my "best friend" anyways. so i doubt i'd ever be able to consider a woman my best friend because the politics between men and women make it even more difficult to achieve that status...

 

[Trajan]

no because my bestfriend is a male

 

[MidniteJay]

I don't buy the best friends with opposite sex either. One of the party is guaranteed to have feelings of intimacy whether they acknowledge it or not.

Only female best friends I have are blood relatives. My sister and a cousin that lives in Canada.

I've had one chick I was close to back in high school but she was unattractive (not ugly just no ass/t*ts, nothing stood out for her that I could work with lol) and that ended when she asked me if I wanted to start dating.

 

[Angel On The Rag]

girls aint friends, they fukk you or they dont

 

[JoelB]

I think its about that time. Always thought she looked good but never wanted to wife or anything like that... but idk brehs. feelings getting stronger and stronger




Have any of yall done this and been successful/unsuccessful? I have no idea how to approach this tho.

Heard this song playin in my head while reading this post.

 

[L&HH]

I don't buy the best friends with opposite sex either. One of the party is guaranteed to have feelings of intimacy whether they acknowledge it or not.

Only female best friends I have are blood relatives. My sister and a cousin that lives in Canada.

I've had one chick I was close to back in high school but she was unattractive (not ugly just no ass/t*ts, nothing stood out for her that I could work with lol) and that ended when she asked me if I wanted to start dating.

Exactly men and women hardly have anything in common. Men like to talk/play sports, fukk bytches, get paper, and party. I dont know of too many females that fit this description and if you do she damn sure aint going make a good girlfriend. The reason men and women talk other school or work related is because there's some kind of attraction between one to the other or both to one another. Most of the time its the guy who likes the female I mean as a nikka how many times have you spoke to a not so attractive female other than maybe trying to get an easy smash. And if a nikka is friends qot a chick they mainly got "friendzoned"

 

[Rawtid]

Exactly men and women hardly have anything in common. Men like to talk/play sports, fukk bytches, get paper, and party. I dont know of too many females that fit this description and if you do she damn sure aint going make a good girlfriend. The reason men and women talk other school or work related is because there's some kind of attraction between one to the other or both to one another. Most of the time its the guy who likes the female I mean as a nikka how many times have you spoke to a not so attractive female other than maybe trying to get an easy smash. And if a nikka is friends qot a chick they mainly got "friendzoned"

If you consider every dude you party, discuss women and sports with your friend then, just wow!

 

[L&HH]

If you consider every dude you party, discuss women and sports with your friend then, just wow!

I said these are the things men like to do, If there are people in your life that you always playing sports and talking sports with, tryna get money together, partying together and tryna game on bytches together how are these not your friends? You mean to tell me your spending all this quality time w/ someone and you dont consider them a friend?

Please tell me more...

 

[Mwrex]

you share that friend

 

[duncanthetall]

I mostly agree with the chicks aren't friends thing, but I've had a couple. These are females that are fun to talk to about random shyt. Where I have a convo with them, they don't have an agenda behind it and are legitimately curious about my input. I can go to sporting events with them. I actually probably have like 3 good female friends. I don't want to have sex with them. One of them I did, but we were really drunk and it seemed like a good idea. They're attractive, but I've screwed up friendships with females from shyt like that before. I can get p*ssy without trying to fukk the females that I genuinely just like as a friend.

Like my close friend is this white bytch named Sarah. She's one of the coolest chicks you'll ever meet. Just a bad bytch who loves to party and shyt. I talk to her about everything. She doesn't give me shytty girl opinion about stuff. When I talk to her about females she doesn't say, "Just tell her how you feel", because she knows thats bullshyt lol. She doesn't bullshyt like she knows a bunch of shyt about sports when she doesn't like a lot of chicks try to do to fit in.

Having a solid female friend is something I think every guy should have. One who knows you well enough to call you out for your bullshyt and give you legit advice about females because they know how hoes think.

Just my 2 cents, brehs

 

[Boutdatlife]

Nahh

 

[You_Ugly_on_Skype]

I mostly agree with the chicks aren't friends thing, but I've had a couple. These are females that are fun to talk to about random shyt. Where I have a convo with them, they don't have an agenda behind it and are legitimately curious about my input. I can go to sporting events with them. I actually probably have like 3 good female friends. I don't want to have sex with them. One of them I did, but we were really drunk and it seemed like a good idea. They're attractive, but I've screwed up friendships with females from shyt like that before. I can get p*ssy without trying to fukk the females that I genuinely just like as a friend.

Like my close friend is this white bytch named Sarah. She's one of the coolest chicks you'll ever meet. Just a bad bytch who loves to party and shyt. I talk to her about everything. She doesn't give me shytty girl opinion about stuff. When I talk to her about females she doesn't say, "Just tell her how you feel", because she knows thats bullshyt lol. She doesn't bullshyt like she knows a bunch of shyt about sports when she doesn't like a lot of chicks try to do to fit in.

Having a solid female friend is something I think every guy should have. One who knows you well enough to call you out for your bullshyt and give you legit advice about females because they know how hoes think.

Just my 2 cents, brehs

Sarah sounds like wife matrial to me. The way you talked about her in this post, makes it seem like you're in love with her.

If the opportunity presented itself, would you wife?

Yeah you would…

 

[Dada]

I've done this. I would not recommend it unless you take it with the utmost seriousness and are really compatible, not just behind yall being best friends because that might just mean you're great friends but not necessarily great lovers.

I'd do it again, despite how disastrous it turned out the 1st. I learned a lot and we're still best friends, albeit there's some bitterness there on my part.

 

[Rawtid]

I said these are the things men like to do, If there are people in your life that you always playing sports and talking sports with, tryna get money together, partying together and tryna game on bytches together how are these not your friends? You mean to tell me your spending all this quality time w/ someone and you dont consider them a friend?

Please tell me more...

There is a world of topics that men and women can relate/agree on that is worlds away from fukking bytches, sports and partying? Politics, career, financial goals, if you're in college you major...That's all I can think of at the top of my head.

You are not attracted to everyone you meet (major props if you think all woman are attracted to you). That doesn't mean you can't chop it up. If all you want to talk about is shyt you can relate to any random man on the street with then I'd have to say you're crazy.

 

[Vancouver Grizzly Fan]

Go for it bro! I'm dating one of my old friends as well. It's starting to be one of the best relationships I ever had.