Dating your bestfriend?

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I think its about that time. Always thought she looked good but never wanted to wife or anything like that... but idk brehs. feelings getting stronger and stronger :to:




Have any of yall done this and been successful/unsuccessful? I have no idea how to approach this tho.
 

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like a wingman.

You fell for the wing man-nette cuz the epiphany that dawned upon u was that she had more swag, class and appeal than the broads she was trying to help u game.


Went thru that back in college.


She was a bonafied cutey, but i didnt feel her like that at the time. Realized that i could trust the shiit out of her, mad dependable, courteous, generous, unassuming and bright (not to mention a phatty for a girl of her background n she had nice feet). We hung out ALL THE TIME. Ate, studied, partied, recreational shyt, drove back home together (campus was 4 hour drive back to the city wer we bowf from).

Remember we went to go spectate a pac 10 home opener bball game and she straight asked me, while both sober, "can we have sex?"

I declinded becuz my feelings werent there yet and didnt want to jeopardize the friendship.

In retrospectation... I should have givin it to her something vicious.

Remember seeing her before she left to teach in asia , rite after graduation. By this time, we grew apart cuz she began seeing her *gulps* T.A. And i barely even kept in touch. But she looked real good but the sad thing... Gurl gave me the cold shoulder, as tho our comraderie nil existed. All the ups and downs we shares were, as it seemed, just fragments of her cerebrum.

After that... I never saw her again.


Shes prolly done teaching by now, recall her studying for her lsats. Mite be a successful lawyer.

Wherever she is... V, i miss u girl and hope we can be friends again.


P.s. what was ur question again op?


*sighs*


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She knows you too well and wont respect you as much as a woman should.
 

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You fell for the wing man-nette cuz the epiphany that dawned upon u was that she had more swag, class and appeal than the broads she was trying to help u game.


Went thru that back in college.


She was a bonafied cutey, but i didnt feel her like that at the time. Realized that i could trust the shiit out of her, mad dependable, courteous, generous, unassuming and bright (not to mention a phatty for a girl of her background n she had nice feet). We hung out ALL THE TIME. Ate, studied, partied, recreational shyt, drove back home together (campus was 4 hour drive back to the city wer we bowf from).

Remember we went to go spectate a pac 10 home opener bball game and she straight asked me, while both sober, "can we have sex?"

I declinded becuz my feelings werent there yet and didnt want to jeopardize the friendship.

In retrospectation... I should have givin it to her something vicious.

Remember seeing her before she left to teach in asia , rite after graduation. By this time, we grew apart cuz she began seeing her *gulps* T.A. And i barely even kept in touch. But she looked real good but the sad thing... Gurl gave me the cold shoulder, as tho our comraderie nil existed. All the ups and downs we shares were, as it seemed, just fragments of her cerebrum.

After that... I never saw her again.


Shes prolly done teaching by now, recall her studying for her lsats. Mite be a successful lawyer.

Wherever she is... V, i miss u girl and hope we can be friends again.


P.s. what was ur question again op?


*sighs*


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WTF??

i think she gave you the cold shoulder cause she sees you as corny.
 

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You fell for the wing man-nette cuz the epiphany that dawned upon u was that she had more swag, class and appeal than the broads she was trying to help u game.


Went thru that back in college.


She was a bonafied cutey, but i didnt feel her like that at the time. Realized that i could trust the shiit out of her, mad dependable, courteous, generous, unassuming and bright (not to mention a phatty for a girl of her background n she had nice feet). We hung out ALL THE TIME. Ate, studied, partied, recreational shyt, drove back home together (campus was 4 hour drive back to the city wer we bowf from).

Remember we went to go spectate a pac 10 home opener bball game and she straight asked me, while both sober, "can we have sex?"

I declinded becuz my feelings werent there yet and didnt want to jeopardize the friendship.

In retrospectation... I should have givin it to her something vicious.

Remember seeing her before she left to teach in asia , rite after graduation. By this time, we grew apart cuz she began seeing her *gulps* T.A. And i barely even kept in touch. But she looked real good but the sad thing... Gurl gave me the cold shoulder, as tho our comraderie nil existed. All the ups and downs we shares were, as it seemed, just fragments of her cerebrum.

After that... I never saw her again.


Shes prolly done teaching by now, recall her studying for her lsats. Mite be a successful lawyer.

Wherever she is... V, i miss u girl and hope we can be friends again.


P.s. what was ur question again op?


*sighs*


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Damn nikka you should have gotten the cheeks when you had the chance, that was the turning point right there. A friendship like that w/ a female has a low chance of being successful because either: A. one or both parties going to catch feelings for the other and once those feelings are expressed aint no turning back. B. one or both parties is going to have a significant other whose going to be jealous of that "friendship" which leads to C. The significant other of one or both parties restricting them from having contact with the other "friend" which leads to that friend feeling dissed or ignored because "things arent like how they used to be". <------From here things will never be "how they used to be"
 

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You fell for the wing man-nette cuz the epiphany that dawned upon u was that she had more swag, class and appeal than the broads she was trying to help u game.


Went thru that back in college.


She was a bonafied cutey, but i didnt feel her like that at the time. Realized that i could trust the shiit out of her, mad dependable, courteous, generous, unassuming and bright (not to mention a phatty for a girl of her background n she had nice feet). We hung out ALL THE TIME. Ate, studied, partied, recreational shyt, drove back home together (campus was 4 hour drive back to the city wer we bowf from).

Remember we went to go spectate a pac 10 home opener bball game and she straight asked me, while both sober, "can we have sex?"

I declinded becuz my feelings werent there yet and didnt want to jeopardize the friendship.

In retrospectation... I should have givin it to her something vicious.

Remember seeing her before she left to teach in asia , rite after graduation. By this time, we grew apart cuz she began seeing her *gulps* T.A. And i barely even kept in touch. But she looked real good but the sad thing... Gurl gave me the cold shoulder, as tho our comraderie nil existed. All the ups and downs we shares were, as it seemed, just fragments of her cerebrum.

After that... I never saw her again.


Shes prolly done teaching by now, recall her studying for her lsats. Mite be a successful lawyer.

Wherever she is... V, i miss u girl and hope we can be friends again.


P.s. what was ur question again op?


*sighs*


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:yeshrug: you live and you learn man, go for the experience.
Me and a chick I was close with (from around age 10) just randomly started fukking, she came over to my crib one night (not unusual, we stayed at eachothers place often) and while watching a movie we just went at it.
After a while we went our separate ways, we stay in contact from time to time but shes definitely not the friend I had before.

So altogether, she'll be the best girlfriend of your life for a while but expect the fun ride to end :whoo:
 
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