Y'all can't tell the difference between expressing boundaries and trying to be controlling. But since I'm kind:
"Boundaries are about the actions we are willing to take to keep ourselves safe and healthy., They are not telling people what to do"
If you don't want a woman who does x,y,z, you can find one that doesn't do x,y,z. This issue w/ these incidents, y'all love these girls who are free. The act of control feels good to you.
Him telling her “Take it or leave it. No hard feelings either way” isn’t “controlling”. Its LITERALLY giving her a choice.
Also add to the fact these are PRIVATE TEXT MESSAGES that she chose to expose to the world for clout. Nearly THREE YEAR OLD text messages at that.
So keep it off social media and handle it privately or jump out the window and put your business on front street, the male is somehow always wrong.
Is it Big Pimpin’ or Me And My Girlfriend?