damn. its some lame cats that really be out here telling on their brother in laws!

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Like her a lot or love her? You don't get engaged to someone you just like a lot. That's good if someone wins her over - if you love her then let her be happy with someone who can give her the commitment she needs. If that's you, then great...if it's not you, then you are leading her on and promising something that you know in your heart you cannot deliver.

People's hearts get broken all the time. It's better to break it off now than to go through an expensive wedding or go another 5+ years with you cheating behind her back...that's not cool for anyone involved. If you can see yourself with her, then stop giving into your temptations. If you can't, then let it go...it's not meant to be. Don't do her any favours by staying with her just so you don't break her heart...it's going to break more after marriage, kids...unless you change.

Reality is, sometimes we care for someone, but we're not meant to be with them for different reasons.
imma keep it 100. i sometimes wanna break up with her cause I wanna do my thing and not hurt her in the process.5 years plus. her mother , aunt and grandmother love me....i took her mom and her aunt to a Maxwell concert! cause i knew they liked maxwell. her mom has pics of me in her phone!..... I hate going to church, but i make an exception to go once every couple months cause her grandma is cool as shyt. she always cooks for me and gives me words of encouragement. her uncle is cool , hes a musician , i go to his shows and show major support....i say all of that to say ive built a real rapport with her family thats genuine and i feel like i'll be letting all of them down, cause its a bond thats been built. its harder than it looks to just break up.
 

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YOU WANT YOUR CAKE AND EAT IT TOO. STOP BEING SELFISH.

YOU DON'T CARE ABOUT HER. QUIT LYING TO YOURSELF. YOU STRINGING HER ALONG BECAUSE YOU'RE SCARED SHE WON'T BE THERE WHEN YOU'RE DONE BULLshytTING AROUND. SO INSTEAD YOU JUST HOPE YOU WILL BE DONE BEFORE SHE WISES UP AND CATCHES YOU CHEATING. STOP FOLLOWING YOUR dikk AROUND TOWN AND GROW UP.

TEMPTATION IS NOT A VALID EXCUSE. IF IT WAS YOU WOULD BE A FAT, ALCOHOLIC, CRACKHEAD THAT CAN'T STOP LYING, CHEATING, STEALING, AND KILLING PEOPLE. PEOPLE ARE TEMPTED TO DO THOSE THING DAILY BUT YOU DON'T DO THAT BECAUSE OF THE CONSEQUENCES. RIGHT NOW THE CONSEQUENCES DON'T OUTWEIGH THE TEMPTATION FOR YOU. THAT'S WHY I CAN'T BELIEVE YOU WHEN YOU SAY YOU CARE ABOUT HER. IF YOU DID THOSE CONSEQUENCES OF LOSING HER WOULD KEEP YOU FROM CHEATING ON HER. THERE IS NO GREY AREA. IT'S BLACK AND WHITE AND ANYBODY WHO TELLS YOU OTHERWISE CAN'T MAKE THE DECISION FOR THEMSELVES. ALL THAT OTHER STUFF WITH HER FAMILY AND shyt IS NOT RELEVANT BECAUSE WHEN YOU BREAK IT OFF WITH HER YOU WON'T HAVE THEM EITHER SO IT'S NOT LIKE YOU'LL HAVE TO SEE THEM.

MAKE YOUR DECISION AND STAND ON IT. MAN UP BREH.
 

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We have the potential to be more than animals but most of us don't operate on that higher level. Reason and logic can overcome the urges of the reptile brain, but you have to have discipline. You should be honest for yoir own purposes. You should be reliable within such that you do the right thing even when no one is looking. This is not for the benefit of other this is for your own development. If you cannot control your reptile brain then you haven't graduated to Personhood yet.
 

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I got a friend who is like my sister. She got mad at her husband, so he stayed over my crib one night and her sister dropped by and ended up fukkin in my bathroom.

I didn't snitch.

After they fukked, she called her sister and told her she needs to work it out with her husband

:dwillhuh: :wtf: :snoop:
 

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this thread is funny, 5 stars an all that, but who is Hank Schroder? :yeshrug:
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A lot of you nikkas are tripping or maybe I'm just a fukked up individual but I stick to the code, family or not. I once ran into my step father and his friends at this bar/lounge, trying to get some younger chicks to come over to their table. I simply walked up and threw a condom on the table and told him he better not bring anything back to my mother. He got to stuttering and shyt and I told him it's all good and repeated what I said earlier.

If a man has always done right by his woman, then I completely understand him tripping. What's crazy to me is how nikkas want the women in their family to be treated like angels but have no problem being a dog with the women they deal with. What kind of selective dirtbag shyt is that?:what:
 

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A lot of you nikkas are tripping or maybe I'm just a fukked up individual but I stick to the code, family or not. I once ran into my step father and his friends at this bar/lounge, trying to get some younger chicks to come over to their table. I simply walked up and threw a condom on the table and told him he better not bring anything back to my mother. He got to stuttering and shyt and I told him it's all good and repeated what I said earlier.

If a man has always done right by his woman, then I completely understand him tripping. What's crazy to me is how nikkas want the women in their family to be treated like angels but have no problem being a dog with the women they deal with. What kind of selective dirtbag shyt is that?:what:

IF YOUR MOMS AIN'T CHEATING, YOU AND YOUR STEPDAD AIN'T shyt. NOT EVEN YOUR REAL DAD. YOUR fukkIN STEPDAD? I DON'T EVEN KNOW WHAT TO SAY...
 

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imma keep it 100. i sometimes wanna break up with her cause I wanna do my thing and not hurt her in the process.5 years plus. her mother , aunt and grandmother love me....i took her mom and her aunt to a Maxwell concert! cause i knew they liked maxwell. her mom has pics of me in her phone!..... I hate going to church, but i make an exception to go once every couple months cause her grandma is cool as shyt. she always cooks for me and gives me words of encouragement. her uncle is cool , hes a musician , i go to his shows and show major support....i say all of that to say ive built a real rapport with her family thats genuine and i feel like i'll be letting all of them down, cause its a bond thats been built. its harder than it looks to just break up.

You don't marry someone because you feel you'll let the family down if you don't. You stay with a person and marry that person because you want to and YOU see yourself with her for the rest of your life. If you don't, then you're doing it for the wrong reasons and you're just dragging the relationship out when you could have already found someone you want to be with like that and she could have found someone as well, years ago :smile:
 

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IF YOUR MOMS AIN'T CHEATING, YOU AND YOUR STEPDAD AIN'T shyt. NOT EVEN YOUR REAL DAD. YOUR fukkIN STEPDAD? I DON'T EVEN KNOW WHAT TO SAY...

Well, if I ain't shyt, at least I'm consistent. I've been a fukk your best friend/sister type dirtbag my whole life. I'm not gonna act holier than thou, when I see the next man making slimball moves. My mother is well taken care of and happy. My step dad having younger side p*ssy is not going to change that, as long as he doesn't get caught or catch anything.
 
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