Brandon M.
City of Angels
imma keep it 100. i sometimes wanna break up with her cause I wanna do my thing and not hurt her in the process.5 years plus. her mother , aunt and grandmother love me....i took her mom and her aunt to a Maxwell concert! cause i knew they liked maxwell. her mom has pics of me in her phone!..... I hate going to church, but i make an exception to go once every couple months cause her grandma is cool as shyt. she always cooks for me and gives me words of encouragement. her uncle is cool , hes a musician , i go to his shows and show major support....i say all of that to say ive built a real rapport with her family thats genuine and i feel like i'll be letting all of them down, cause its a bond thats been built. its harder than it looks to just break up.Like her a lot or love her? You don't get engaged to someone you just like a lot. That's good if someone wins her over - if you love her then let her be happy with someone who can give her the commitment she needs. If that's you, then great...if it's not you, then you are leading her on and promising something that you know in your heart you cannot deliver.
People's hearts get broken all the time. It's better to break it off now than to go through an expensive wedding or go another 5+ years with you cheating behind her back...that's not cool for anyone involved. If you can see yourself with her, then stop giving into your temptations. If you can't, then let it go...it's not meant to be. Don't do her any favours by staying with her just so you don't break her heart...it's going to break more after marriage, kids...unless you change.
Reality is, sometimes we care for someone, but we're not meant to be with them for different reasons.