damn. its some lame cats that really be out here telling on their brother in laws!

[MR. SNIFLES]

lol @ yall watching a nikka get some pus on ur sis then get ur ass beat by that same dude cuz u confronted him...

YOU LETTING HIM DO THAT IN FRONT OF YOU IS WORSE THAN THE BEATING YOU COULD GET. THAT nikka IS DISRESPECTING YOU RIGHT IN FRONT OF YOUR FACE. fukk OUTTA HERE.

IS nikkaS REALLY SCARED TO STAND UP FOR THEIRS OVER A BEAT DOWN? I'LL TAKE THAT LOSS DEFENDING MY FAM.

 

[HalfwayHandsome]

Shouldnt put yourself in that position. U should have known from jump what type of nikka he was.its levels to this shyt yall should have started out on a small scale like the club!

 

[Just like bruddas]

 

[Still FloW]

Believe troll threads and get worked up for no reason brehhs...

 

[Blackking]

YOU LETTING HIM DO THAT IN FRONT OF YOU IS WORSE THAN THE BEATING YOU COULD GET. THAT nikka IS DISRESPECTING YOU RIGHT IN FRONT OF YOUR FACE. fukk OUTTA HERE.

IS nikkaS REALLY SCARED TO STAND UP FOR THEIRS OVER A BEAT DOWN? I'LL TAKE THAT LOSS DEFENDING MY FAM.

i would get rid of him if he hit my sister...

or if someone wanted to murk on of my fam members...

at the same time I'm under no illusions about the nature of men, and how relationships go.

 

[Desirous]

lol blood is thicker than water though...but you have a point...if she's accepting of it then what was the point? Also, why wouldn't he just tell you to respect his sister rather than not say anything/let it happen and then go snitch? If he didn't like it, he should have confronted the situation as it happened.

 

[Brandon M.]

lol blood is thicker than water though...but you have a point...if she's accepting of it then what was the point? Also, why wouldn't he just tell you to respect his sister rather than not say anything/let it happen and then go snitch? If he didn't like it, he should have confronted the situation as it happened.

listen , i thought everything was all good....nah mean....i hang with her other brother, he cool as fukk and we be bagging girls and he never ran back and told her....the brother that told on me is older than me!

 

[Brandon M.]

i think he gay , seriously

 

[Desirous]

listen , i thought everything was all good....nah mean....i hang with her other brother, he cool as fukk and we be bagging girls and he never ran back and told her....the brother that told on me is older than me!

Personally, if people want to explore and bag girls then they shouldn't be married/in a committed relationship.

 

[Brandon M.]

Personally, if people want to explore and bag girls then they shouldn't be married/in a committed relationship.

im not married to her,,we engaged.......................i cant see myself with one woman for the rest of my life

 

[Desirous]

im not married to her,,we engaged.......................i cant see myself with one woman for the rest of my life

But that's what being married is about does she know that? Is she good to see other men as well? That's the agreement?

 

[Brandon M.]

But that's what being married is about does she know that? Is she good to see other men as well? That's the agreement?

seriously, i think once we actually get married, I will stop. I want to but its so much temptation out here and I dont wanna regret not doing something i had the chance to do 30 years from now. She likes me a lot , and we have open communication, so i would hope if she ever wanted to sleep with another man that she would tell me and wer can break up right then and there

 

[Desirous]

seriously, i think once we actually get married, I will stop. I want to but its so much temptation out here and I dont wanna regret not doing something i had the chance to do 30 years from now. She likes me a lot , and we have open communication, so i would hope if she ever wanted to sleep with another man that she would tell me and wer can break up right then and there

I'm sure she hopes and expects the same from you though...you can't expect courtesy if you're not giving it back. I don't think you'll stop once you're married because in your head, you justify it by adding that there is temptation. Of course there is. We are all tempted...men and women alike. I'm sure a lot of ladies on here are married to good men, but they have the opportunity to sleep with FINE men with more money, bigger dikks etc lol but cheating is an action and a choice...a choice whether you will give into temptation or not.

You can't have an open communication then be mad that someone snitched on you lol cause if you openly communicate with her then there wouldn't be snitching since the info would come directly from you...

 

[Brandon M.]

I'm sure she hopes and expects the same from you though...you can't expect courtesy if you're not giving it back. I don't think you'll stop once you're married because in your head, you justify it by adding that there is temptation. Of courshen e there is. We are all tempted...men and women alike. I'm sure a lot of ladies on here are married to good men, but they have the opportunity to sleep with FINE men with more money, bigger dikks etc lol but cheating is an action and a choice...a choice whether you will give into temptation or not.

You can't have an open communication then be mad that someone snitched on you lol cause if you openly communicate with her then there wouldn't be snitching since the info would come directly from you...

damn ur right.....i like her alot but i sometimes think im not ready. i fear if i break up with her that i wont get her back in the future and somebody else will win her over. But i also fear that if we break up , that I might actually fall for another person. i'll feel like i led her on for 5 plus years and then break her heart. relationships get kinda confusing after year 4 , especially when ur in ur mid 20's

 

[Desirous]

damn ur right.....i like her alot but i sometimes think im not ready. i fear if i break up with her that i wont get her back in the future and somebody else will win her over. But i also fear that if we break up , that I might actually fall for another person. i'll feel like i led her on for 5 plus years and then break her heart. relationships get kinda confusing after year 4 , especially when ur in ur mid 20's

Like her a lot or love her? You don't get engaged to someone you just like a lot. That's good if someone wins her over - if you love her then let her be happy with someone who can give her the commitment she needs. If that's you, then great...if it's not you, then you are leading her on and promising something that you know in your heart you cannot deliver.

People's hearts get broken all the time. It's better to break it off now than to go through an expensive wedding or go another 5+ years with you cheating behind her back...that's not cool for anyone involved. If you can see yourself with her, then stop giving into your temptations. If you can't, then let it go...it's not meant to be. Don't do her any favours by staying with her just so you don't break her heart...it's going to break more after marriage, kids...unless you change.

Reality is, sometimes we care for someone, but we're not meant to be with them for different reasons.