Dad's friend said women in 2016 have nothing to offer to men other than Sex/Childern

[jackson35]

sound like a man who never spend real time with a woman. maybe you should teach him.

 

[freetroit]

My wife cooks, cleans, has her own career. The money she brings in helps ease my financial burden so we can both save more, invest more and travel more. Plus all the contacts she has have helped me grow my business (www.bynkradio.com) and improve my portfolio, she knows successfully people that give me more business knowledge for free.

For you to even ask this means you're dealing with hella bum bishes breh.

Is your wife japaneses bruh?

 

[African Peasant]

It's not even about that. It's a legit question by dudes who got shyt going for them or dudes who know their potential.

Why work your ass off to get where you're at only to risk it all going to shyt because you may have chosen the wrong partner?

Society has forced us into a state of mind where we have to chose between protecting ourselves and our worth or risking it all for females who aren't willing to put in the work to make the relationship work.

Not all women, but most... you ask most chicks what they bring to the table in a relationship and they act like the use of their orifices should suffice.. nah.. it's 2016.. as a woman, if sex is the only thing you're able to bring to the table in a relationship, your parents have failed you.

You're mixing two difference issues. If you choose the wrong partner, you lost, even if "she brings something to the table". It's not a trade. You're supposed to find a good woman anyway.

If you have something going for you, you're supposed to look for a good partner. It's a given.

The issue here is that people don't know why they should they get married, that's why they are creating questions like "what she has to offer".

It might be cultural : when I'm looking at a woman, I don't care about what she can give me in term of material gain. If she can be a good woman and a good mother. That's the most important : that's what I'm looking for as a man.

 

[Neuromancer]

I'm a scorpio. We value love over most things eventually.

You’re also, secretive and nuerotic.

 

[Neuromancer]

All hell would break loose if women said this about men up here

I think it would be money that they would say and I'm sure there's a thread on that already .

 

[Neuromancer]

You're mixing two difference issues. If you choose the wrong partner, you lost, even if "she brings something to the table". It's not a trade. You're supposed to find a good woman anyway.

If you have something going for you, you're supposed to look for a good partner. It's a given.

The issue here is that people don't know why they should they get married, that's why they are creating questions like "what she has to offer".

It might be cultural : when I'm looking at a woman, I don't care about what she can give me in term of material gain. If she can be a good woman and a good mother. That's the most important : that's what I'm looking for as a man.

So sex and babies and good vibes.

 

[Texasdymond]

What you said...

"My mom's friend said that these 2016 men have nothing to offer women besides hard dikk and mouths to feed"

 

[African Peasant]

So sex and babies and good vibes.

Family and companionship. Yeah.

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

If they're actually doing these things.

If they are.

 

[Shadow King]

i do feel sorry for the young brehs out there.

Dudes met they girl in 99 talking bout "you boys lIke men "

It's rough out here

 

[BezO]

Everybody lookin' outwards, nobody lookin' inwards.

So sex and babies and good vibes.

Very simplified, but what more do you want? Family and someone to build & enjoy life with.

Good vibes can be quantified dependin' on what you want & need from a mate.

 

[Neuromancer]

Everybody lookin' outwards, nobody lookin' inwards.
Very simplified, but what more do you want? Family and someone to build & enjoy life with.

Good vibes can be quantified dependin' on what you want & need from a mate.

Oh I think sex, and good vibes are great (babies) I'm not arguing, I'm saying that he is agreeing with dude in op.

 

[Neuromancer]

Family and companionship. Yeah.

So you agree with dude except with one amendment.

 

[African Peasant]

So you agree with dude except with one amendment.

I don't agree with him. We don't have the same position.

A lot of black men/women are having sex/kids left and right without having any sense of family.

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

A man can reply they're building bridges, aircraft, or flipping burgers. Men are creating and innovating. Providing food and shelter.

And I bet you're not doing any of that so shush.

Bum ass men always trying to live vicariously through other people's accomplishment