Cousin is thinking about marrying a stripper

[cleanface coney]

lol baby girl got some good game for your cuzin to marry her

she got him wanting to marry a stripper lolol its a loss imo but whatever i dont know the nikka

 

[Turbulent]

never dated a stripper but my opinion is:

you should only date/marry a stripper if you're deeper/more advanced in the game than her (and that doesn't just go for strippers). Same principle with a hoe/slut. you should only marry one if you're ahead of her in the food chain and not only know about her past, but also don't even expect her to change or care on that level. I think it works better if the girl is more "square" than the dude. In OP's cousin's case, it seems like dude is more square than her so unless he really has good game, he's about to get exploited and disrespected for years...

see people got rules of "you shouldn't be with a stripper" or "you shouldn't be with a girl if she's been with X number of dudes". I consider these rules of thumbs and 8 times out of 10 you'll do good by following these rules. But it's better to have a reasoning and philosophy behind your rules. It's not being with a stripper that's bad per say. it"s being with someone who's in that type of game while not knowing yourself how to navigate within that game or what it's about. Cause that means you don't understand how her mind works and what motivates her. Too easy for her to run game on you at that point without you even realizing it. She been stripping for years. at some point the whole vibe gets in her brain even if she's not even conscious of it and even if she has good intentions...




EDIT: Just finished reading the whole thread. I hate that i probably typed this whole post for nothing. Stripping for 6 years, tried to quit many times? Sweet, innocent, smart etc but decided to strip? 26 year old stripper stripping for 6 years while going to school and only slept with your cousin and her ex? Either she's consciously running game on your cuz or she actually believes her own hype. Sounds like a huge front to me from the outside looking in. But it also sounds like your cuz (and your whole fam for that matter) is already hooked on her. Trust me when i say this man, chances are, she already belongs to the game and your cousin is a simp/trick in this situation (whether she's acting consciously or not)

 

[Beegio]

she's graduating this summer from college with her Masters and plans on quitting. He graduated already and pretty much got the money to hold them down until she gets something else.

He asked me if he should do it so soon, I mean he really loves her and she loves him, but he's not sure if he's ready or not. Also he might decide to take a job offer in France soon also and want her to come with him.

She's a nice girl, very smart and respectful. My aunt adores her and wants her as a daughter in law. I like her, never seen her dance but she can play a mean game of Street fighter. I told him to wait about another year to see how it plays out. He bought the ring already

They been dating since 2006 I think so maybe he should act sooner. She got jobs lined up as we speak so and doesnt wanna dance anymore I think she's a good catch

:jiveturkey:

 

[360dagod]

 

[True Blue Moon]

She never sold the puss. She just started having sex with my cousin

They just started fukking after 7 years?! 2006 was so long ago breh

 

[Just like bruddas]

They just started fukking after 7 years?! 2006 was so long ago breh

nah man, I mean she just started fukking period, my cousin is her second sex partner

 

[True Blue Moon]

nah man, I mean she just started fukking period, my cousin is her second sex partner

Oh ok I just read the other post

 

[TELL ME YA CHEESIN FAM?]

nah man, I mean she just started fukking period, my cousin is her second sex partner

 

[JBoy]

when did wifing skrippers become the move though?

 

[Ohnoits]

She doesn't sound like a typical stripper case...I dunno man, he gotta do what he gotta do. It sounds like his mind is already made-up.

 

[954UAlreadyknow]

Im sure out of the thousands of strippers out there, they probably got 00.3% that actually fit the description your cousin ol lady is giving him.

Nothing in life is 100% so Ima go with the odds.

I wouldnt do it

 

[JLova]

My dude was fukking with a stripper and it was getting a little too serious. Was hanging out with her children and shyt. I had to sit him down and tell him to cut that shyt out.

He broke up with her.

5 years later he's about to get married to a higher caliber broad.