But if that's your people and there's a legitimate need there how can you stand by idle and let it go by? what's the justification for watching someone you know and or love struggle. We all make mistakes in life of have accidents could be past due medical bills stopping them or whatever.
I can stand by very easily. Id rather them save up money and I'll match or put to it but I'm not rocking with them taking on debt especially when I know they can't afford to pay it back.