cosigning for something for someone close to you

Rawtid

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But if that's your people and there's a legitimate need there how can you stand by idle and let it go by? what's the justification for watching someone you know and or love struggle. We all make mistakes in life of have accidents could be past due medical bills stopping them or whatever.

I can stand by very easily. Id rather them save up money and I'll match or put to it but I'm not rocking with them taking on debt especially when I know they can't afford to pay it back.
 

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Only my mother or fiance.

They're both good with money. If they're ever in a bind (except jail :hmm: ) I wouldn't have a problem helping if it was necessary.

Anyone else can kiss my ass.

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I'm damn near 30 so I got a once every 10 year average for sticking my neck out for someone like that.

if your girlfriend or best friend or a close relative came at you and needed the help and you could do it you're telling me you'd decline? if that's the case then you really don't trust that person and you probably shouldn't even have them in your life.

Girlfriend? hahahahahaha. Hell no. We could break up the next year and she'd lose all obligation she ever felt for honoring that debt on my behalf.


Family and friends also no. Credit is your financial "word", if you've broken it to the point you need someone to vouch for you, how can I vouch for you? You proven otherwise.
 

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KIQ Moms: Hey I'm downtown I need you to come bail me out











KIQ: :mjpls:

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My mother always told us growing up: If any of you lil MF's ever get arrested: I'm not bailing you out, visiting or putting money on your commissary.

The apple doesn't fall far from the tree.............. :manny:
 

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Girlfriend? hahahahahaha. Hell no. We could break up the next year and she'd lose all obligation she ever felt for honoring that debt on my behalf.


Family and friends also no. Credit is your financial "word", if you've broken it to the point you need someone to vouch for you, how can I vouch for you? You proven otherwise.
I hate to tell you this but her obligation is her word she gave you and if her and you breaking up would be the difference between her paying what she owes and not then she's a shyt person and you probably never should have been with her to begin with.

if I was dating a chick and we broke up but she consigned for me a car I'm still gonna pay that cause that's what I owe. I'm not a deadbeat I pay my debts. How can yall justify fukking around with known deadbeats and people with questionable character? If I find out somebody is a deadbeat friend or fam or girlfriend I cut them off and never speak to them again.
 

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Co-signed on a car for my girl this year. Her credit is buttcheeks but we were able to get her a 2.59% rate. :yeshrug:
 

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I hate to tell you this but her obligation is her word she gave you and if her and you breaking up would be the difference between her paying what she owes and not then she's a shyt person and you probably never should have been with her to begin with.

if I was dating a chick and we broke up but she consigned for me a car I'm still gonna pay that cause that's what I owe. I'm not a deadbeat I pay my debts. How can yall justify fukking around with known deadbeats and people with questionable character? If I find out somebody is a deadbeat friend or fam or girlfriend I cut them off and never speak to them again.

You've found out real quick that not everyone has the same morals as you and particularly cares about living up to their word. There are tons of people with questionable character and they have no problem saying, "Well, I can't pay this, might as well let ol' dude handle it" and they will disappear leaving you with the debt. No cosigns.
 
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