The woman in the OP is just embarrassed of course. But as far as your discrepancy men have done a great job of painting our gender as very sex hungry and acceptably promiscuous while forcing women into very pristine roles.
Do you now get why it will be very easy to charge a man with rape? A thread from now this same board will say that a woman with more than 3 bodies is a harlot but champion a man's sexual prowess.
If people want things to be equal, you can't just pick and choose the benefits and consequences you want to get rid of. Thats for women and men. I know what you are saying but this is why women will always be overly protected when it comes to sexual matters. nikkas have subconsciously put the p*ssy on a pedestal.
And drunk driving is not like drunk sex. If it is, like you say, then people on the road who die from drunk drivers should be put at blame as well considering that we all know that people drive drunk (women know they are vulnerable to rape when drunk) but choose to go out anyway (but they choose to get drunk anyway). That is the problem with victim blaming (Girl in OP is def not a victim). Doesn't really solve the problem. Just forces (good) people to shell themselves.
i wish things could be that ideal. Everyone excepts their part in matters. People own up to their responsibilities and face the consequences of their actions. But, thats not how it is in real life friend. Society has double standards, some good and some bad depending on who it pertains to. I can't speak for the rest of the posters here, but this has nothing to do with hating woman imo. This girl got caught in the act and now wants to accused some one of a very serious crime. That spits in the face of many men and woman who are the true victims of rape.