While common knowledge to some, a lot of guys make this mistake. I did as a youngster. A lot of women are followers and usually their leaders are habitual losers in the dating game. Some women are so influenced big their friends and family opinion.Even if you like the girl a lot and she seems so great, smash before meeting anyone. Thing is, the dynamics of the relationship changes after you smash. After you smash you're in more control of things. You are more relaxed, you don't have to front anymore and she's more inclined to up talk you more.
COLI RULE #4813: Never meet a girl's friends or family before smashing.
- Thread starter Stuntone
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Ashley Banks
All I ever wanted was the world
the stuff you dudes come up with. this is retarded, if a guy told me he didn't want to meet my friends/family I would think he didn't really like me and I would probably stop talking to him. Same if he didn't want me to meet his family/friends.
meeting people is an investment. Unless it's ur friend that just happens to be around, a man shouldn't do anything but take u out a couple times, until you've physically invested back into the relationship.
Where's the other 4812? 
gangreen
Top Notch
Real Talk 
Exactly, a dude's main and only objective when courting a woman should be fukking. Even if you genuinely like her, all the romance and everything can come after, but until you smash that there's no way to tell if she really likes you. I've seen dudes strung along for MONTHS, shyt is painful to watch
what ever happened with that chick you were talking to?
Ashley Banks
All I ever wanted was the world
meeting people is an investment. Unless it's ur friend that just happens to be around, a man shouldn't do anything but take u out a couple times, until you've physically invested back into the relationship.
That's your opinion, breh.
If I can't meet a guy's friends or family then I'm just gonna stop talking to him. I'm supposed to let you stick your dikk in me but I can't even meet your friends.
Might be normal to you but it's a bit ridiculous to me.
gangreen
Top Notch
That's your opinion, breh.
If I can't meet a guy's friends or family then I'm just gonna stop talking to him. I'm supposed to let you stick your dikk in me but I can't even meet your friends.
Damn... see thats the problem right there ... most females always treating sex like some big deal... its a mutually beneficial arrangement for both parties...
Kilgore Trout
Banned
Most times ill meet a girl she will be with her friends.
But ya you wanna smash as soon as possible while she is still projecting her desires on to you.
If you wait too long, she will start noticing the real you and wont be as attracted.
But ya you wanna smash as soon as possible while she is still projecting her desires on to you.
If you wait too long, she will start noticing the real you and wont be as attracted.
Ashley Banks
All I ever wanted was the world
Exactly, a dude's main and only objective when courting a woman should be fukking. Even if you genuinely like her, all the romance and everything can come after, but until you smash that there's no way to tell if she really likes you. I've seen dudes strung along for MONTHS, shyt is painful to watch
Question, breh. What kind of dating advice are you going to give to your daughters/sisters/cousins etc?
Well, considering the fact that I can get a disease that I would have to live with for the rest of my life or I could get pregnant. Yeah, it's a big deal. Also the whole thing about men thinking women are worthless if they have too many sex partners, no matter how good of a woman she is. If she's had sex with more than 5 people, she doesn't deserve to be loved or respected. So yeah, pretty big deal breh.
92Inc
Fear me
stupid thread
innocentdevil
:whoo:
sex to women is what commitment is to men....not suppose to be given out so freely
shout out to @His_Excellence_Reincar
Ronnie Lott
#49erGang
You are a female. You dont have any idea what men think. If u disagree, fine. But calling it "retarded" simply because u dont understand the mindset of the opposite sex is silly. Meeting someone parents is a pretty big deal that symbolizes a certain degree of commitment and there lies a certain extent of pressure at that point to be together
