Coli men: What does your ideal woman get from you?

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Booksnrain said:
I think the scariest part of this thread is the fact that dudes are giving these types of answers for their IDEAL woman. We're so entrenched in "these bytches ain't shyt" mentality that you can't even imagine what you'd be willing to give to someone who is worthy of everything you got.

It's all bravado and an unwillingness to be vulnerable b/c we're scared we won't be enuff for one another.
I think some dudes only deal with bytches and thots b/c they're afraid they don't have anything to offer other types of women. It's easier to pretend that there are virtually no good women out there , rather than think about why you keep missing them. To be perfectly honest, it's the same with a lot of black chicks as well.
We resent people having expectations of us due to fear of not bein able to live up to them. So the biggest defense mechanism we have is to talk shyt to the people asking us to live up to our full potential.
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Booksnrain said:
I think the scariest part of this thread is the fact that dudes are giving these types of answers for their IDEAL woman. We're so entrenched in "these bytches ain't shyt" mentality that you can't even imagine what you'd be willing to give to someone who is worthy of everything you got.

It's all bravado and an unwillingness to be vulnerable b/c we're scared we won't be enuff for one another.
I think some dudes only deal with bytches and thots b/c they're afraid they don't have anything to offer other types of women. It's easier to pretend that there are virtually no good women out there , rather than think about why you keep missing them. To be perfectly honest, it's the same with a lot of black chicks as well.
We resent people having expectations of us due to fear of not bein able to live up to them. So the biggest defense mechanism we have is to talk shyt to the people asking us to live up to our full potential.
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Booksnrain said:
I think the scariest part of this thread is the fact that dudes are giving these types of answers for their IDEAL woman. We're so entrenched in "these bytches ain't shyt" mentality that you can't even imagine what you'd be willing to give to someone who is worthy of everything you got.
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This is the answer to the question. If my ideal woman is perfect in every way and holds me down? Respects me and everything in between? She has earned everything I have and it's on me to give her the best I can, every day.
 
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marcuz said:
these exact same nikkas will turn around and praise chicks that come from communities where men provide (simp) for them. dudes wanna complain about black womans attitudes, black women being masculine, black womens weight, all the damn single mothers; but they refuse to connect that to BW being out here alone to fend for themselves, with no men (fathers, brothers, husbands) offering them provisions.

i mean, the thread will speak for itself.
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The Maverick said:
I'm not gonna lie, that's a good question Teedot.

See, I used to be one of those dudes that would go the extra mile in all my relationships. Take them out on dates, genuinely care, etc. I don't mean simping either, I'd have my standards and requirements, and if they hit them, it'd be a mutual thing from there on. But the thing is, over time, people wear you down. People change you. You start off first dating wanting to do everything for your girl because seeing her happy made you happy. Then that falls through. And the next one does. And the next. Then you don't want to pour as much of yourself anymore. Things don't move you as much anymore. You start raising the bar higher and higher, subconsciously knowing that nobody will be able to clear it. And suddenly, you stop bringing things to the table.

I'm somewhere in that cycle right now, and I think that a lot of posters here are too. So to be honest, no. I don't know what my ideal woman would get from me right now.
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Teedot said:
Let's say you have your ideal woman, whatever that may be to you. She is ride or die, does not cheat etc.

What are the things you're bringing to the table?

Besides sex and a job:upsetfavre:
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doesn't matter if she was my ideal woman or not I'm consistent bout how i treat u

u try to hit me with that bullshyt and unnecessary headaches all the damn time just cuz u get the :camby:

people need too accept people for who they are and not try to change them cuz thats where u get hit with the :ufdup:


what i bring to the table cant be duplicated or tried cuz its who i am and how i was raised and what I've been thru with women

unconditional love:
u will get my love period how deep it is how strong it is just depends on u as a person. love has different levels and its never the same with each partner on how far it goes

loyalty:
i aint got time to be chasing these broads in the streets thats what i was single for and had my fun and did i experienced it all soaked my wild oates and have no desire to be trying to step out on ya thats the least of ur concern when it comes too me

respect:
i will give u the same respect u give me nothing more or less u disrespect me i have no problems putting u in ur place for that disrespect u give me so ur wasting ur time going that route with me

honesty:
I'm the most brutal 100% honest person ur gonna know i tell it like it is regardless of the feelings. if u cant handle it with me ur in the wrong relationship then. why beat around the bush or sugar coat shyt this aint high school ur a grown ass adult get with the picture and i expect u keep it real with me

father:
i have kids and they will always be my number #1 priority and if u got kids they will also be my number #1 priority. woman come and go kids are forever. i will treat ur kids and mines on the same level EQUAL NO FAVORITES and with all the love i have and raise em to my upmost abilities and they will have a good home and roof over there heads



Phoenix_Knightly23 said:
some of yall too young to be answering this question tbh...yall dont even know yourselves yet you out here selling your worth to women :wow:
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and thats a big problem itself

thinking u want a big booty female or big breast dime piece
when as u get older u realize shyt is a damn headache and not worth ur time

thinking u want a PAWG and later realize u just want a good woman period regardless of race

u have to know who u are as a person before u can give any female the time of day and what she wants cuz if u try to before hand u think it sounds easy u wondering y u cheating or ur bored cuz it aint what u want to give her u might want the opposite

go have fun enjoy life travel meet different females have different experiences
once u do everything u want then u will start too see what u truly want in life and in a woman that u want to settle down with

otherwise ur gonna keep making the same mistakes all the time wondering y u cant find a good woman when in reality u cant cuz u dont know what u want in the first damn place
 
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