Coli ladies. Is this true? "Too many men are boring!!"

MarcMan

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Nothing wrong with what she said imo.

Nobody wants to be bored, especially intellectually curious people.

That doesn't mean doing dumb shyt. But have some hobbies, travel to somewhere other than Vegas, read a book, etc.

Be someone others are drawn to.
 

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Find your own purpose in life brehs, do all the things you find fun. Being your honest self will bring the right women around you, I know it sounds cliche but it's true. No need to try to change a woman. I'm seen as boring to many women out here, but those that consider me boring just wasn't going to work in the first place. Go to different black history museums, nature trails, going bike riding, hitting the beach,go camping/getaway houses, travel, reading, exercising in the morning, etc. When you have your own motion, you'll see the right woman/women come along that's in sync with you. Be honest with yourself so that you're honest with them. It makes your life way easier instead of worrying about a woman who sees you as boring, she's saving you the time when you listen to her.
 

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Really all i need for a partner to be interest is to 1) take an interest in some of my hobbies. and 2) have her own hobbies i can take an interest in.

If you already enjoy something on your own. Having a companion who isn't a wet blanket only enhances the experience.
 

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I think people want too many things out of one person. These women want men to be good looking, make great money, intelligent, but also have time to always have an emotionally compelling life, be a porn star in bed but also be loyal. You have to pick the top things that are important to you.

That's why having friends, hobbies, extended family etc are important.
 
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