Find your own purpose in life brehs, do all the things you find fun. Being your honest self will bring the right women around you, I know it sounds cliche but it's true. No need to try to change a woman. I'm seen as boring to many women out here, but those that consider me boring just wasn't going to work in the first place. Go to different black history museums, nature trails, going bike riding, hitting the beach,go camping/getaway houses, travel, reading, exercising in the morning, etc. When you have your own motion, you'll see the right woman/women come along that's in sync with you. Be honest with yourself so that you're honest with them. It makes your life way easier instead of worrying about a woman who sees you as boring, she's saving you the time when you listen to her.