Coli brehs... are we writing single mothers off too soon?

[JBoy]

Call me overly optimistic, but I think after a while, a lot more women will wake up and realize that being a single mom is the worst case scenario you can get yourself in
Hell we are starting to see a noticeable decline in the number of teen chicks who get pregnant

 

[Sierra Mist]

I'm wondering why some of ya'll comin off so bitter that we ain't fukkin single moms like that. If anything wouldnt ya'll say your stock goes up as a man going that long without kids and getting your life right? Some of my nikkas are like 18-20 with kids and their lives are OVER. I ain't hating either, its true. they're locked in that retail job for life tryna support kids. I feel like getting with one is limiting my potential, fukk I look like jumping into a ready made family and locking myself down at 22?

Why would ya'll advocate that single mom life? tryna get us to lock ourselves into something that seems like it's hustlin backwards. Kids cost money, you get with a single mom, if it gets serious she's gonna want you to take care of her kid like it's yours. I just don't get it.

If you don't have a child then never feel like you are obligated to play the captain for a single mother.




breh, i was raised by a single mom and at the thought of ever being serious with one.

Good to see. People are attacking me, making up life stories about me, wishing death on me and plotting to kill me just for saying being a single mother is not a good thing. shyt is amazing.

 

[MikelArteta]

Single moms are for guys with no game, losers, and simps

There is not one pro to wifing a single mom

 

[GoPro]

Single moms are for guys with no game, losers, and simps

There is not one pro to wifing a single mom

Being pampered on hand and foot

 

[RaidenS]

will these threads ever end..

nope

 

[AAKing23]

If she had just one child by a decent dude (not no street or thug nikka) and was still bad as hell then maybe I'd consider

And that's a big ass maybe

 

[PhonZhi]

will these threads ever end..

nope. and they'll always do numbers it seems

 

[twan83]

Single moms are for guys with no game, losers, and simps

There is not one pro to wifing a single mom

I can say thats a case by case basis though but its RARE

Only reason i can disagree with it cuz im in a good situation

I married a single mom who took in my kids as her own when there biological mother left them with ease

I took her daughter in as my own also cuz her father was never around PERIOD.

So we have a real good situation to be honest

BUT DONT GET IT TWISTED FOR SOME OF YOU FOLKS THINKING ITS A HAPPILY EVER AFTER THING

Im happy dont get me wrong BUT I AINT STUPID OR BLIND nothing LAST FOREVER.

If we make it last then great
if we dont I WILL STILL BE FINE

 

[Rebel Soldier]

I want a family later on down in life with a chick who doesn't have physical baggage. Settling down with a single mother would be counter productive.

 

[Amy Traphouse]

*reads thread*

*realizes nonya dis applies to me *

*skips off into the sunset with my childless fiance & 2 daughters *

 

[CrimsonTider]

I havent read through the thread yet.

But, A single mom best bet is to get with a guy that already has kids.


I guy with no kids is not going to want to raise another nikka's kids unless that is the only girl that can take him serious.

You always have to deal with the Baby Daddy being in the pic. I dont know why a guy would want to add this unnecessary stress to his relationship

 

[nene1985]

Im 28..no kids..in my experience, I still meet men with no children, its just that they have no interests in marriage/starting a family, mostly due to the freedom they have by not being tied down.

I am soon approaching 27, and I don't have kids and don't want a man with kids. I don't like the idea of another chick even having access to my house or feel that she can call my man when she feel like it and say it was oh it was for the kid. I want to avoid that drama.

 

[Metta World Movement]

Unless that kid's pops is dead.....PASS

And even then I might not fukk w/ her depending on the situation

 

[MoneyTron]

Wouldn't touch with a 10 foot pole. Too much baggage.

 

[HoLLaBaCK]

I support any single woman raising a child by herself...

I just don't date em