What should a career driven woman do instead
CNN anchor Isha Sesay ‘Pregnant From Sperm Bank Clinic And Single’ at 46
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J.E.T.S
Lookahere mayne...
Focus on her career and date. Kids aren’t puppies that you have just because you’re bored with life, in your feelings, or just want something potentially cute to have.
What if she wants kids?
Look, I'm not advocating for single parenthood. It's better if the majority of families are multi-parent. But it ain't a big deal if someone like her who is at least well-off has a kid.
Yall (not you specifically) are getting to angry at this calling her selfish, etc. When some women who get married, and have a kid, still end up raising the kid alone.
Should she not be able to have kids?
Most people are terrible decision makers, that isn't a gender issue.
Enabling and no long term thinking.
Why do you, and others like you, think that "money" solves the problem of a 46 year old deliberately pregnant single mother?
And that money automatically means the child will have a "good life"?
What will she tell the child when they ask "where's my daddy?"
Approximately how many years will she be (the only) grandmother?
Where's the other side of the family to help take care of the child and grandchildren?
They never hold other women accountable lol Jesus fukking Christ
This is how Black women destroy their own image.
Peep the concern trolling over whether she would have a half cac baby. She was already married to a white boy so why would she be opposed to having a biracial child.
Why do these chicks have to self snitch? There's an open secret that female reporters sleep with their sources to get a story why not an ëxpose'on "How I succeeded in media?" Not saying that she slept with a source but she didn't have a baby because she was around a bunch of rich powerful men and the dudes that stepped to her seemed mid in comparision.
Additionally she is a journalist she has to literally "follow that story" That means she has to catch a flight to Uzbeckistan at 3am on a random Tuesday.
People diss Naomi Campbell but it's pretty obvious she had a sperm bank special and with the wenching she did there would've been no preference to "keep it Black" but even she kept quiet about the issue and keeps her daughter out of the limelight.
Black people constantly "confess our sins" to white folk other than trying to normalize this nonsense shyt was a personal choice. I know one thing for sure she better have no smoke for Nick Cannon or his baby mommas.
Peep the concern trolling over whether she would have a half cac baby. She was already married to a white boy so why would she be opposed to having a biracial child.
Why do these chicks have to self snitch? There's an open secret that female reporters sleep with their sources to get a story why not an ëxpose'on "How I succeeded in media?" Not saying that she slept with a source but she didn't have a baby because she was around a bunch of rich powerful men and the dudes that stepped to her seemed mid in comparision.
Additionally she is a journalist she has to literally "follow that story" That means she has to catch a flight to Uzbeckistan at 3am on a random Tuesday.
People diss Naomi Campbell but it's pretty obvious she had a sperm bank special and with the wenching she did there would've been no preference to "keep it Black" but even she kept quiet about the issue and keeps her daughter out of the limelight.
Black people constantly "confess our sins" to white folk other than trying to normalize this nonsense shyt was a personal choice. I know one thing for sure she better have no smoke for Nick Cannon or his baby mommas.
richaveli83
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Attractive?
Successful career wise?
Over 40?
Dated/married a white man?
Congratulations on your platinum thread, OP!
Attractive?
Successful career wise?
Over 40?
Dated/married a white man?
Congratulations on your platinum thread, OP!
she didn't have a problem with settlling with a white boy, I guess that's her preferenceHer ex husband was scust
They divorced quickly so she didn’t have any kids
Did I say that? No.
This "flip the statement over and argue against it" strawman tactic is common when you have a weak foundation and are debating emotionally.
I notice you didn't answer the "how many years will she be a Grandma" question.
There's two separate issues here.
The premeditated single motherhood. And the advanced age at which she's doing it (46).
Both demonstrate an extreme narcissist selfishness that we are rightfully judging.
The term is called "baby rabies" when women turn 35 and they hit that soft wall (and I'm talking about pretty women) if she's not booéd up women will find a Nick Cannon type of dude have a "worldwind romance" let him shoot up the club several times have a baby then bush him and put him on child support.
If that doesn't work this is the next option. As this becomes more common the family court system is gonna look hella goofy
They hated this guy but he told them the truth. Even fine old bytches find themselves in "no Man's land"
So tell your good lies
It's already here
The biggest reason to tell women to get married early is because of the long list of Men that she will fukk that she'll be ashamed she let fukk.
Truth.Breh, it’s funny. Flip the script and imagine it was a man who paid child support but didn’t want to be in the child’s life.
The narrative would change to: “money isn’t enough to raise a child. The father needs to be apart of their life. Money isn’t a substitute for fatherhood.”
But because it’s an incredibly selfish woman doing it for her own desires, suddenly money will suffice. It’s one thing to do this in your 20s, 30s but 46? Completely sefish and vanity driven. From a health and social point of view.
If the desire to raise children was that strong, adoption or fostering are also options. But a lot of these women deep down want an accessory to compliment themselves.
They see babies like a wedding, they love the image of it but forget there’s raising a child and a marriage to come respectively.
Just like it takes more than good looks to settle down with a good man, it takes more than money to raise a good child. And if she couldn’t even do the former then….
No sane human being would voluntarily want to raise a child by themselves, especially in this current era… AND at 46? Wtf?
And truth be told, a lot of these women in their 40s getting sperm donors comes from deep rooted misandry, but we’re not truly ready to have that conversation yet.
And I'm definitely ready to have the misandry conversation. It's long overdue with these "boss babes that don't need no man" mind controlled bots.
I'll start it off with...
It's not that you don't need a man, it's that you can't KEEP one. That's the beautiful lie you tell yourself instead of accepting the ugly truth.
Then you get mad and join a bitter broad blame brigade until you're all hating men. But you're still getting run through and ghosted until you're 40+ and toasted.
