I understand the mechanics that play into the descisions she makes as ar as saving herself for marriage and wanting to marry a succesfull man,preferably with the same religious and ethnic background..can't fault her for that.I refuse to accept however that these are things that make a marriage a succes cause I have seen marriages like these go to shytsville just as quick,or quicker because the relationship has nothing but potential but nothing else,so you start excactly where a "normal"couple starts out,virgin p*ssy or not,Team Jacob bin Jozef or not.