Missy Elliot though geez
But the message is false......there is no “behavior type” that guarantees a husband for a woman or renders a chick single....all types of women get married in all lanes of life. .
:EmpGood: Good good... The hate is flowing through them all...
Such Ether...:deadman:
It stings because a lot of those women will never sniff marriage.
They will have an uninterrupted string of situationships, failed relationships, etc.
Until other Black women school Black women at a young age, they will continue to struggle when it comes to relationships.
But the message is false......there is no “behavior type” that guarantees a husband for a woman or renders a chick single....all types of women get married in all lanes of life. My issue is the message....if the only reason for women not to be out here being hoes is the hopes of eventually being married then there’s something wrong with that........people far too often take the word of God then try to apply it to OTHER people’s lives when NO human has the credentials to ever do that. Ciara should stay married and enjoy, and fall back from giving “how to” speeches on the subject......because there is no “how to” guide to being a wife and even if there was she nor that pastor knows what it is .
Cuz not everyone is supposed to be married....our fiscal and social norms makes most feel its necessary......but it isn’t for everyone....so most don’t get into it organically, they just doin it cuz they think it ought to be done. Then those types end up divorcing leaving an impression on a generation that wants to bypass the drama of what they’ve been shown marriage is all together.Give me your theory as to why the marriage rate continues to plummet
Them dogs is a hollerin'
Cuz not everyone is supposed to be married....our fiscal and social norms makes most feel its necessary......but it isn’t for everyone....so most don’t get into it organically, they just doin it cuz they think it ought to be done. Then those types end up divorcing leaving an impression on a generation that wants to bypass the drama of what they’ve been shown marriage is all together.