Women just aren't good with accountability. Dudes on the other hand already know they gotta switch something up if they want a bad chick. "I need to make more money." "I need to approach more." "I gotta hit the gym" "work on my personality" etc. Women been fed fairytales their whole life and have this entitlement thing where they can be fat, broke, ran through, bad attitude and still feel ENTITLED to a "good man." The minute you suggest something they're doing is contributing to their singleness, they get mad and petty. It doesn't matter how Ciara phrased what she said realistically. Any attempt to hold a mirror up to females (some not all) will get met with this same response.
All facts.
With women we mostly gotta take them as they are. They are the attractive sex.
We got to put in crazy amounts of effort (unless you were born blessed, even then) to attract them.
Much like how women will take an hour or two putting on makeup, making herself presentable. We do the same, except it's a life time effort, spread out to more aspects of life.
No, I'm not saying women don't put in an effort to improve themselves in life at all. No. But in the attraction game it applies. As long as a youngish woman don't get fat, she'll be good.