Chicks expecting you to pay when yall ain't dating *scust*

[Asiatic Black Hebrew]

So yesterday I told this chick about Mobb Deep coming to DC next month And I was pretty much like "yo i'm going to this show you should come too." It wasn't on some "hey let me take you out type shyt" She's a friend that I've known for awhile, I used to hit it back in the day & she just broke up with some dude, so she's free to hang out now. We've NEVER dated, I've always just been like the guy that fukks her inbetween boyfriends But anyway, when I tell her they were coming, she's like "Sure! So I'm like aight cool, thinking we had an understanding.

So fast forward to today, I buy my ticket, they are like $40 after taxes. I text her like "Hey don't forget to get your ticket because they are selling kinda quick." She immediately text back like "You buy it since you're inviting me" I was like :really2::adrian: I told her that I would make sure there's henny on deck & would take care of drinks, but she gotta buy the ticket. (Keep in mind, WE AINT TOGETHER & I haven't fukked since she broke up with her last dude) She says "Oh i'll pass if I gotta pay." I was just like bytch

Then she types a thesis talkin bout "I'm all about me these days, I've been too nice to guys in the past & I'm done, sorry. If a man wants me he'll do whatever it takes to get me, I ain't going out of my way for nobody."

I was literally reading this shyt like

I'm just reading this shyt like bytch I don't WANT you :cmonb: I was just inviting you to the show. And she should know better because we've known each other for so long. I'm not some new guy you're going on a first date with. Plus I'm going to the show whether she goes or not, I was just pretty much just extending an olive branch to her stankin ass.
So I basically told her "We'll see how you act leading up until the show" :rross:Basically saying if I hit it a few times before then, THEN WE WILL SEE :ronaldo: Still not guaranteeing shyt :weakaf:

But regardless, this bytch trippin.

Her expectations :raughs: That sense of entitlement :tonio:

Thoughts?

 

[lowkey0z]

why are you inviting bytches to mobb deep concerts breh?

so did she end uo buying her own ticket or nah?

 

[DigitalDopeman]

I don't see anything wrong with you being a friend and copping her the ticket since she aint have a clue about the show that you invited her too, its only $40, but at the same time I don't see anything wrong with you NOT getting her the ticket and having her get her own especially if you told her you got the drinks. Obvviously, shawty took your offer the wrong way talkin bout if a man WANTS her he will do whatever to get her, she failing to understand that you don't WANT to HAVE her, you just kicking it. On that note, I wouldn't buy the ticket, if you do, then she might become delusional and start to think you WANT her and expect you to be just as generous with future handouts lol. Go enjoy the show dolo bruh, you might catch a new slide anyways. My 2 Cents

 

[VFib]

If you don't want to pay, then don't. Things don't need to be complicated.

 

[TRFG]

"I got the drinks"

 

[Gold]

If you don't want to pay, then don't. Things don't need to be complicated.

Its really this simple

 

[Turk]

The only thing I pay for is p*ssy..got me fukked up shawty

 

[chief_keef_stan]

bytch prolly broke

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

I'll buy shyt for friends if they ain't got it or just because
But yeah she came at you wrong
Should have just asked if you were paying from jump

 

[Asiatic Black Hebrew]

why are you inviting bytches to mobb deep concerts breh?

so did she end uo buying her own ticket or nah?

She likes OG rap breh.

She still ain't bought it yet, but like I said, I'm going regardless. So if she doesn't then

"I got the drinks"

:weakaf:

 

[timothy_strickland]

I am a feminist, I pay for my own stuff and she pays for her own stuff. With women having jobs and money, no reason to trick on them and give them privilegied status just cause they have a vagina, equal rights for all.

 

[PinotNoir]

If you're doing the asking out, um you should pay. Otherwise I'd assume you're broke and it'll def be a no.....

 

[m0rninggl0ry]

I'm not understanding why you continued to have a "plantonic relationship" with women who were strictly for sex or shooting the shyt with. Personally, i don't take sand to the beach. Now if you two were actually talking, it's not a big deal. Be more clear from here on out.

Go by yourself. I've done this numerous of times.

 

[PeridotPuss]

This is why I always pay for my own everything... so I'm never the subject of some male chest pounding about getting curving a girl out of $40....

These whole e-paragraphs...about this .....smh

OP, you just as throwed off as your "friend" this the shyt nikkas building their confidence off these days?

I hope this story doesn't end with you alone at a mob deep concert because ......

 

[Asiatic Black Hebrew]

If you're doing the asking out, um you should pay. Otherwise I'd assume you're broke and it'll def be a no.....

You're free to assume anything you like

This is why I always pay for my own everything... so I'm never the subject of some male chest pounding about getting curving a girl out of $40....

These whole e-paragraphs...about this .....smh

OP, you just as throwed off as your "friend" this the shyt nikkas building their confidence off these days?

I hope this story doesn't end with you alone at a mob deep concert because ......

Pounding my chest huh? My confidence is already high enough trust me. And I won't be alone either way, other people are going, I was just extending an invite to her.