That's called PTSD. And more black kids need therapy to reckon with it.
That's called PTSD. And more black kids need therapy to reckon with it.
ZoeGod
I’m from Brooklyn a place where stars are born.
White supremacy plays a role. However the mating habits in the black community is deplorable. The problem is the black community is in shambles because single parenthood has been normalized after two generations. The black family is on life support. When there is no father in the home there is no discipline, no order, no guidance for the young boys. They do not know how to control their emotions and look for guidance from the streets. And the young girls do not get the loving attention of a father so they grow up and mate with the wrong type of men further perpetuating the cycle. We are at the bottom of every economic metric in this country and to add upon it single parenthood makes it worse. Every study shows a child who grows up in a single parent home is more likely to do worse in all areas of growth than a child in two parent home.
And we have to be real. The success of any group of people is dependent on on who the woman decides mates with. Darwin said it best it is the female that decides who to mate with and when to mate. This is why old school playas say women do the choosing not men. Most of these young nikkas fathers and grandfathers were street nikkas in the 60s,70s,80s,90s.
Tell me how a race is supposed to survive with these stats:
70% of black children born out wedlock
Only 33% of black women have given birth while married compared to 64% of all women who given birth while married.
That means 67% of black women given birth out side of marriage.
Similar numbers are the percentage of black single mothers which is 72%.
24% of black men are baby fathers.
43% of black men are childless and not married.
In 2016 only 29% of African Americans were married compared to 48% of all Americans.
How can we even build a community or wealth when the marriage rate is cratering at a fast pace. Or when dysfunctional single parenthood is normalized. Yes white supremacy plays a major role by breaking up the black family. But let us be real we have to have major shift in thinking in terms of marriage and family. On the coli you have GMB but for a community to survive and build wealth marriage is needed. For there to be order and have less wild nikkas there must be a strong family structure. Before we even begin to try dismantle white supremacy the black family must be saved. Marriage,smart sexual practices(condoms birth control), better male role models and black men taking control of the community can only stop this bedlam and chaos.
There is a black club here in town. People shoot all the time and people continue to go to it. One guy got shot Sunday night actually. My boy was DJing across the street
HopeKillCure
Banned
is it oochie wally or one mic.Black people can't win for trying with nikkahs.
First the problem is "too many single mothers outchea",
okay so 43% of nikkahs aint married nor have kids. That is almost half the men being responsible with their dikks.
"Naaaah, that ain't enough! Too many baby father's"
at 29%? Sooooh, 28% married with children. 29% unmarried with children, and the rest living responsible, yet this is a problem?
Do more of the 29% need to be legally married or more of the 43%?
And does being married make you somehow a better father to your child? Is that a magic power a wedding grants
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King Jove
King Of †he Gawds
smh
Where did that stat come from
ZoeGod
I’m from Brooklyn a place where stars are born.
From another thread on the coli.
24% of US black men are unwed fathers
6% of married US black men marry outside the race
43% of black men are unmarried and childless
24% black men are unmarried and have children
40% black women are unmarried and mothers.
Roughly, 24% of black men are responsible for 40% of unwed mothers. But more or less all women support a campaign to blame all black men and particularly the less than 6% of men who marry outside the race. Figures are based on this:
https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/nhsr/nhsr051.pdf
Black Men, ages 15-44, that are: Married 86.1% (have children) Unmarried 35.5% (have children) Black Women, ages 15-44, that are: Married 84.8% (have children) Unmarried 54.4% (have children) Consider that only approximately 32% of BM are married and 26% of BW are Married.
GnauzBookOfRhymes
Superstar
West Side has been on fire the last couple years.
You must see the white man as your daddy who knows better than you and needs to come to your rescue to prevent you from destroying yourself. Blaming white people for distribution of the guns is literally reducing black folk to children who don't know any better and need white momma and daddy to come rescue us from ourselves. I'm sick of seeing this weakness in us black men.
ISO
Pass me the rock nikka
Chicago has tough gun laws. The guns are smuggled illegally from Indiana, Iowa, Kentucky, Mississippi, etc. In the hood nobody uses legal guns my guy.
Tbh the deflection you doing is pitiful
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West side has always been crazy, it’s just not as publicized
Drip Bayless
Superstar
Why do black people look for every reason to blame they own race for the conditions we live in
get these nets
Veteran
Good post. Though I think everything starts with the men. I won't absolve them from turning heel and abandoning their families like cowards.
I cannot imagine how different my life would have been in my father one day decided to run away from his wife and children .
Black folks have to make more practical life decisions, though I think some enjoy the freedom of being losers.
ISO
Pass me the rock nikka
Yup we see this shyt on this very forum
Marriage? Nah, #GMB
Smart sexual practices? Nah, pullout gang and we racking up body counts too
Better male role models? Lil nikkas is out here looking up to Lil Durk and NBA
Taking control of community? Nah, it’s no snitching out here. And fukk policing ya community or teaching in ya hood.