Can you cheat on someone and still love them?

SunGod

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what a mess this thread is. just get with a man/woman who shares your same views on monagamy/polygamy/whatevermy.
This thread is really just five people versus everybody else, but I agree with you. I'd imagine any man with a heart would have a hard time pulling off polyamory/polygamy though. Never met a woman who wasn't jealous.

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At least you honest :ehh:. I ain't mad at it.

5+ years though:huhldup:. He gone turn into a savage if he ever find out.

He will never find out. He thinks that I am so in love with him, which I am, but he thinks that love would make me not cheat. He thinks the only women who cheat are women who don't love their men bc in his mind (and clearly in you alls as well) women only cheat for emotional reasons and wouldn't cheat if they're in love. This is how we get away with it.

I thought you were a Virgin so you're a bonefied thot:ohhh:


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How am I a thot? Is everyone else in here a thot too? We are all cheating.

Breh this is the average American chick you better pick your jaw up and realize the average American female more foul than we can ever be.

dikk size is arbitrary she is simply chemically incompatible with Main negro #1. Modern day Women have a very poor discernment sometimes with separating idealized physical attributes and the chemical profile of Men that attract them.

No Man would have a dikk below 12 inches if dikk size were the only selection factor. She is trying to get shock value half-trolling but can't even see the holes in her own argument.

Dck, sex, attraction does matter. That is another reason why I am cheating on him. I like variety and fcking other males who I am attracted to. Always tall with nice sized dcks. There are no holes in my argument.

Well whaetever works for u honey.

Most women aint like u (if ur telling the truth) but some very few can seperate sex from love. Theres even a whole lifestyle calles cuckolding where the woman has NSA sex with random dudes and the husband is okay with jt. She still loves her husband tho.


90% of females cannot pull this off without feelings involved. But if u can, then more power to u and ur relationship and I hope u best:wub:

Actually there are lots of us. I started doing this after joining a facebook group for it. There are women all over the U.S. doing it. Especially the ones who are "feminist" and pro casual sex. There are obviously lots of women who are out there fcking without being attached if so many of y'all can have casual sex and fwb so easily.

Nothing she said was shocking. She likes her bf for stability is truely attracted to side nikka. Thats the average American thot.

What she said is pretty normal actually if u deal with females. She was right dumb dudes dont expect it but any dude with experience knows it can happen to anyone.


She got with an incompatible dude cuz he was good enough. All that height and dikk size bs was to nip @ these dudes insecurities on here since they hate that topic. Plenty of big dikk and/or tall dudes get cheated on. Ive known women who have done it.

Oddly enough she prolly even feels less attraction for her bf since hes being faithful. Shes just giving us more ammo tbh.


And if what she said is true, cuckolding is a real life style and theres a subset of women who seperate sex from love. But thats like 10% of women.

How am I a thot when you cheat too?
My bf is compatible with me. I love him. I just like new dck.
I am attracted to tall guys and all of my sides are tall with big dcks. There's no point in cheating with males I'm not attracted to. What sense does that make?
I am actually more attracted to my bf bc he is faithful, as he should be because I love him.

You were completely wrong about everything.

Its pointless trying to get that through to these simps sometimes

Love is an emotion. Emotions are fickle. They come and go. True love is action. Marriage is a business based on compatibility not "love" which comes and goes.


American women are doing basically what @Giselle said in her post at record numbers


Now how to figure out if shes truly attracted or ur just good enough is a skill within itself. And it has more than to do with than dikk size & height
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You are in her confused. First you said there are barely any women who are doing what I do, but now you're saying a record number of people are doing it.

Attraction is based off of looks first then personality. If you aren't her ideal height, she's settling by staying. If your dck isn't as big as she likes, she's settling by staying. If you don't have as much money as she likes, she's settling. Some people leave when one of those 3 are off. Especially the sex. Either that or they cheat.
How comes you can hate more than one person but you can't love more than one person? :jbhmm:

People don't usually hate more than one person. They focus on one. Disliking someone and hating them isn't the same thing. Just like like and love isn't the same. If you do happen to hate more than one person at a time, which is rare, there will always be one you hate much more than the others. Same with love.

A female almost NEVER has sex just for the joy of sex they are doing it to accomplish something or gain something from a Man.

Men don't need anything from a Woman they don't consider to be long term material except p*ssy. We are not trying to gain anything else out of side chicks and every time it becomes something more it's always at the Woman's urge half the time.

Side chicks have been fukking up the game since Biblical times if they all knew their place, followed directions and remained obedient America would not be having half the problems it has right now.

This is false. Males cheat for attention, the chase, the ego stroke, conversation. Many differen reasons outside of just sex. If it was just sex, may as well hire a prostitue so you can skip all of the parts where you have to find a woman to cheat with, talk to her to get her to become familiar enough with you to convince her to fck. You all like that part though bc you want more than just sex.

& you're wrong. All of the men I've cheated with have asked me for a relationship. Some of those males were in a relationship themselves. I never asked them for one. & I know many other women who cheat and have the male ask them for something more.
 

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This thread is really just five people versus everybody else, but I agree with you. I'd imagine any man with a heart would have a hard time pulling off polyamory/polygamy though. Never met a woman who wasn't jealous.

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You ain't never heard of swingers? :dwillhuh:
 
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He will never find out. He thinks that I am so in love with him, which I am, but he thinks that love would make me not cheat. He thinks the only women who cheat are women who don't love their men bc in his mind (and clearly in you alls as well) women only cheat for emotional reasons and wouldn't cheat if they're in love. This is how we get away with it.



How am I a thot? Is everyone else in here a thot too? We are all cheating.



Dck, sex, attraction does matter. That is another reason why I am cheating on him. I like variety and fcking other males who I am attracted to. Always tall with nice sized dcks. There are no holes in my argument.



Actually there are lots of us. I started doing this after joining a facebook group for it. There are women all over the U.S. doing it. Especially the ones who are "feminist" and pro casual sex. There are obviously lots of women who are out there fcking without being attached if so many of y'all can have casual sex and fwb so easily.



How am I a thot when you cheat too?
My bf is compatible with me. I love him. I just like new dck.
I am attracted to tall guys and all of my sides are tall with big dcks. There's no point in cheating with males I'm not attracted to. What sense does that make?
I am actually more attracted to my bf bc he is faithful, as he should be because I love him.

You were completely wrong about everything.



You are in her confused. First you said there are barely any women who are doing what I do, but now you're saying a record number of people are doing it.

Attraction is based off of looks first then personality. If you aren't her ideal height, she's settling by staying. If your dck isn't as big as she likes, she's settling by staying. If you don't have as much money as she likes, she's settling. Some people leave when one of those 3 are off. Especially the sex. Either that or they cheat.


People don't usually hate more than one person. They focus on one. Disliking someone and hating them isn't the same thing. Just like like and love isn't the same. If you do happen to hate more than one person at a time, which is rare, there will always be one you hate much more than the others. Same with love.



This is false. Males cheat for attention, the chase, the ego stroke, conversation. Many differen reasons outside of just sex. If it was just sex, may as well hire a prostitue so you can skip all of the parts where you have to find a woman to cheat with, talk to her to get her to become familiar enough with you to convince her to fck. You all like that part though bc you want more than just sex.

& you're wrong. All of the men I've cheated with have asked me for a relationship. Some of those males were in a relationship themselves. I never asked them for one. & I know many other women who cheat and have the male ask them for something more.
Speak for yourself:mjgrin:
 
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If it was just sex, may as well hire a prostitue so you can skip all of the parts where you have to find a woman to cheat with, talk to her to get her to become familiar enough with you to convince her to fck. You all like that part though bc you want more than just sex.

Most Women aren't good enough to see twice when they sell booty. They have no work ethic and are often poor quality because they willingly submit and are faithful to a violent pimp but won't be submissive or obedient to a Charlie Brown square type nikka willing to take her out that life.

Chemistry can't be bought but you can enhance your chance of attracting a chemically compatible Woman if you have one already. Yall respond better to nikkas who are already taken.

Don't like it? FIX IT....
 

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Most Women aren't good enough to see twice when they sell booty. They have no work ethic and are often poor quality because they willingly submit and are faithful to a violent pimp but won't be submissive or obedient to a Charlie Brown square type nikka willing to take her out that life.

Chemistry can't be bought but you can enhance your chance of attracting a chemically compatible Woman if you have one already. Yall respond better to nikkas who are already taken.

Don't like it? FIX IT....

I guess you guys do as well. All of the guys I cheat with know that I have a bf and they knew that when I told them when they approached me.

A lot of prostitutes these days do not have pimps. They seel from online websites or social media. The same ones y'all thirst over.

None of this answered my last quote. You just talked right around everything I said. I guess you got stuck in your stupidity.

Try again. :umad:
 

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A female almost NEVER has sex just for the joy of sex they are doing it to accomplish something or gain something from a Man.

Men don't need anything from a Woman they don't consider to be long term material except p*ssy. We are not trying to gain anything else out of side chicks and every time it becomes something more it's always at the Woman's urge half the time.

Side chicks have been fukking up the game since Biblical times if they all knew their place, followed directions and remained obedient America would not be having half the problems it has right now.

It's totally the side piece fault :russ:

God shut up already.
 

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@StickStickly I'm not going back and forth with you on minor details.

We are never gonna agree so just keep dealing with whatever requirements you got and I'm sure one of these millions of SIMPs will be at your beck and call to handle your desires.

Just don't complain when you get tired of him putting you on a pedestal. You are one of those females that wants a large dikk nikka with the board room presence of Shaq, the face of Idris Elba, the financial profile of Russell Simmons, the dikk strength of Lex Steele, the charm of Antonio Banderas and the intellect of W.E. Dubois.

We are all tired of these ludicrous criteria yall have and then when you get a Man that meets 9 out of 10 of your demands you get mad because he is a rare specimen and wants some variety.

Enough. Either settle for nikka Joe Basic and get 100% fidelity or keep rocking with Mr. Magic Jones and complaining he wants side piece assortments.

At this juncture I've tried to educate yall on the principles but you want to keep circumnavigating this shyt until Jesus gets resurrected.
You nikkas think about those kinds of men more than women. I don't even know half the people you even described. :yeshrug:

I swear y'all make up things women want and keep yourselves out the game.
 

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Not sure, people find comfort with one person, if you really loved someone would you want to hurt them by cheating on them?:jbhmm: But you can be happy and comfortable around that person and don't want to let that go
 

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If you cheat on a love that's true...

...then who's really cheating who?

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Men usually don't initiate divorce and say "I love the other Woman and this can't work".

70% of divorces initiated by Women (mostly CACs though because we don't get married).

The difference is Women can't separate attachment from sex. A plumber is just a plumber unless he states himself otherwise. Just because I clean some other bytch pipes out don't mean I am going to provide her with other goods and services.

You're exposing your lack of experience with women :mjlol:
 
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