Can you cheat and still be in love with someone else?

Mask and Da Glock

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i'm currently going through this issue in my head...i had plenty of opportunities but stayed faithful and finally caved. It was weird though and now I'm good with the bomb ass puss i get from my girlfriend.
 

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Nah, I mean, how can you TRULY love someone and cheat on them. It's like an oxymoron to me. If you TRULY loved someone, then you wouldn't do ONE THING to hurt them.


Not saying you DON'T have feelings or care for them immensely if you cheat, but by the very nature of cheating you're saying that there is something wrong with the love/relationship when you step out on somebody...Even if you don't get caught, I don't think you can honestly LOVE somebody but then turn around and cheat (whether emotionally, physically, or mentally) with someone else...

You cheated cause you're looking for SOMETHING you aren't getting at home...
 

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Nah, I mean, how can you TRULY love someone and cheat on them. It's like an oxymoron to me. If you TRULY loved someone, then you wouldn't do ONE THING to hurt them.

Not saying you DON'T have feelings or care for them immensely if you cheat, but by the very nature of cheating you're saying that there is something wrong with the love/relationship when you step out on somebody...Even if you don't get caught, I don't think you can honestly LOVE somebody but then turn around and cheat (whether emotionally, physically, or mentally) with someone else...

You cheated cause you're looking for SOMETHING you aren't getting at home...

Peolpe hurt their loved ones all the time breh, family included:yeshrug:
 

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Nah, I mean, how can you TRULY love someone and cheat on them. It's like an oxymoron to me. If you TRULY loved someone, then you wouldn't do ONE THING to hurt them.


Not saying you DON'T have feelings or care for them immensely if you cheat, but by the very nature of cheating you're saying that there is something wrong with the love/relationship when you step out on somebody...Even if you don't get caught, I don't think you can honestly LOVE somebody but then turn around and cheat (whether emotionally, physically, or mentally) with someone else...

You cheated cause you're looking for SOMETHING you aren't getting at home...


How do you feel about circumstances where it's a long distance relationship? at least for a short period of time? For example I need to switch between cities every two weeks. I agree with you though but to actually practice it is a bytch. But I mean I LOVE my girlfriend I don't LOVE a girl i'd fukk. For the record I'm with you but it's definitely not so black and white and i can see the other side.
 

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I feel as though you can. I mean, sex is a physical activity that involves 2 people. If you can take the emotional aspect of it out and just have sex, you don't have to be in love with them to do it, you just have to be attracted to them. Now if you develop feeling for the other person then that's when :ufdup: You may feel like you have to satisfy that physical need to be with someone else but really you don't. That's the way I look at it. To me that's just like saying that if you love someone then you won't be attracted to anyone else and that's B.S. You're human, so you'll be attracted to other people. Now if you act on those urges then catch feelings, you :ufdup: again.
 

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yeah you can be deeply in love with someone and cheat on them.

bt the fact that you love them means you're not gonna risk hurting them by cheating.

If you do it and think you're not hurting them because they don't know means you don't love them as much as you thought....
 

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I feel as though you can. I mean, sex is a physical activity that involves 2 people. If you can take the emotional aspect of it out and just have sex, you don't have to be in love with them to do it, you just have to be attracted to them. Now if you develop feeling for the other person then that's when :ufdup: You may feel like you have to satisfy that physical need to be with someone else but really you don't. That's the way I look at it. To me that's just like saying that if you love someone then you won't be attracted to anyone else and that's B.S. You're human, so you'll be attracted to other people. Now if you act on those urges then catch feelings, you :ufdup: again.

Right, the issue is now people assume feminine and male roles (male being fukking as many as possible, feminine being protecting your partner from other suitors/feelings). Not saying its recent and these archetypes are like...neolithic. This is what makes it difficult to say because the only reason we're on the internet is uga waga in the neolithic era fukked as many bytches as possible and said fukk love.
 
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