Can we have an earnest discussion about the femcel issue we have in the Black community?

[Dance_Like_A_Fiend]

There’s no such thing as femcels. Or at least it isn’t the same as the incel demographic. But to answer the topic of the thread, the problem with a lot of these black women online (and a lot of misandrist women online in general, regardless of race) is the fact that nobody calls them losers enough.

• It gets shrugged off as gender war babble and not given the same think-piece, dox-worthy treatment it would have had a man wrote it
• Women on the internet operate on a hivemind mentality. Saw it with the Simone Biles situation two Christmases ago, and then again with the man or bear trend. There are a few women that don’t operate like that, but generally they only ever disagree when they’re beefing with each other
• Self-hating men/men trying to get into their panties/male pick-mes and simps are indulging them, and even in posts like the OP where they’re objectively in the wrong, they still won’t approach it with the same spit and vinegar they would their male counterparts but instead will take the fence sitting route until they can find a way to spin it on men again

I don’t want to make it a black woman thing, even though the ones online are making it really hard not to lol. But white guys go through it too, white women are only slightly less loud and creepy about it. Asian women (mostly) move in silence and Arab and Hispanic women are relatively quieter about it because their men are much more aggressive and their communities can lock in and get on code better so it’s for their own safety and public image that they don’t publicly c00n out (or whatever the equivalent for the other races are) like that.
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Honestly I’d say what really needs to talk about is how easy and fast swirlers can get absorbed back into the community. Some of the guys here just see women talking out of their asses online, but I see 4klan posters with vaginas, looping back into my first point, as long as that exists with them, there’ll never be such a thing as a femcel.

Unfortunately there’s a lot of black men out there with their self esteem reduced to powder and their standards literally non-existent so none of these women will have any trouble finding one. They’ll be playing clean up man for a reformed divestor and I’m not even talking about biracial stepkids, I’m talking about the mental baggage that makes women like the one in the OP post the shyt that they do. Imagine that lady procreating and then projecting that mental illness into her future children.

 

[Weaver31]

Why do y'all follow these people?! Some of you guys live in weird spaces on these social media apps. Actively searching for things to make you mad is part of the problem too. You're giving them the attention that they seek. Just take note of it and keep it pushing.

Ur right...but too many black people on social media are anti BM/BW and it's like blacks as a collective tend to fight with each other too much....BM vs BW, BM vs BM, BW vs BW, and FBAs vs black immigrants....it's too much and way too low vibrational.

 

[Gloxina]

There’s no such thing as femcels. Or at least it isn’t the same as the incel demographic. But to answer the topic of the thread, the problem with a lot of these black women online (and a lot of misandrist women online in general, regardless of race) is the fact that nobody calls them losers enough.

• It gets shrugged off as gender war babble and not given the same think-piece, dox-worthy treatment it would have had a man wrote it
• Women on the internet operate on a hivemind mentality. Saw it with the Simone Biles situation two Christmases ago, and then again with the man or bear trend. There are a few women that don’t operate like that, but generally they only ever disagree when they’re beefing with each other
• Self-hating men/men trying to get into their panties/male pick-mes and simps are indulging them, and even in posts like the OP where they’re objectively in the wrong, they still won’t approach it with the same spit and vinegar they would their male counterparts but instead will take the fence sitting route until they can find a way to spin it on men again

I don’t want to make it a black woman thing, even though the ones online are making it really hard not to lol. But white guys go through it too, white women are only slightly less loud and creepy about it. Asian women move in silence and Arab and Hispanic women do because their men are much more aggressive and their communities can lock in and get on code better so it’s for their own safety and public image that they don’t politically c00n out (or whatever the equivalent for the other races are) like that.

/thread

 

[Weaver31]

Fortunately for non black women, they don’t get slandered on a world stage by their male counterparts.

Black men get famous, tell the world how undesirable their women are via music and entertainment, and then act fake shocked that these young black girls feel this way about them.

Other men do slander and talk about their women...it's just black folks slander each other out in the open. We love airing out our dirty laundry.

 

[Shadow King]

They can get sex....they just need to aim for women on their level.

They are. Stop pushing this bullshìt.

 

[Weaver31]

Here are some of the terms that they use for black men: nakers, bullet bags, felony fairy, conquered male, apes, nig nogs, nigcels, gorillas, dindu nuffins, and tyrones. The women that defend black men are called ‘mamm’es’, ‘pick me’s’, and ‘guard dogs’. They use terms and phrases like “blackistan” to refer to black areas, “struggle love” to describe dating a black man, and “burn the cape” to advocate against defending black men. One of their favorite phrases is the use of “holding black men accountable” when referencing any violence that black women experience at the hands of black men, often going as far to advocate for more black men to die at the hands of the police. They use hashtags like #notyourmule #divest #burnthecape #divestordie

The biggest problem with Divestors is that they market racist ideas about black men as black women’s empowerment. You will have writers, bloggers, youtubers and influencers who are Divestors, as well as people parroting divestor talking points for engagement. Individuals who are divestor adjacent will stop just short of saying things explicitly racist and will delete their comments if they get caught openly expressing their disdain for black men.

I really don't understand the mamm!e term they use. They are incorrectly using that term as it was a slave term back I'm the day.

It would be more accurate of them using the term mule.

 

[Lemons]

Other men do slander and talk about their women...it's just black folks slander each other out in the open. We love airing out our dirty laundry.

I said black men do it on a world stage. When white men slander their women, they aren’t putting them down for their hair, features, and inferiority to other races of women. They actually have high racial self esteem. Their hatred is misogyny. Not hatred of self.

However *many* black men make it VERY clear to the WORLD that they do not desire black features on their women. To the point now that’s it’s a cliche in pop culture.

I mean, you want to get to the root of the issue, you have to start there. Those black girls/women are “divesting” and crashing out because they are hurt. Anger is a secondary emotion. Btw I am not justifying what has been said, but rather contextualizing it.

 

[Weaver31]

They are. Stop pushing this bullshìt.

U don't know that. There are lids for every pot.

 

[MicIsGod]

Quality posting

 

[Lemons]

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[Weaver31]

I said black men do it on a world stage. When white men slander their women, they aren’t putting them down for their hair, features, and inferiority to other races of women. They actually have high racial self esteem. Their hatred is misogyny. Not hatred of self.

However *many* black men make it VERY clear to the WORLD that they do not desire black features on their women. To the point now that’s it’s a cliche in pop culture.

I mean, you want to get to the root of the issue, you have to start there. Those black girls/women are “divesting” and crashing out because they are hurt. Anger is a secondary emotion. Btw I am not justifying what has been said, but rather contextualizing it.

I agree and pointed out on here before that black men as a collective needs to be better men and support women in our community as well as other black men. Also, black males need to stop killing and abusing so many black women, black men and black children.

But black women been hating on black men for decades now too. It goes both ways.

Also, some black women use divestment and anti black male talking points just to justify their preferences for white and non black men. Both black males and black females need to stop hating on their opposite gender in their communities just because they prefer white twat/peen. U like what u like.

 

[Neuromancer]

Remember that divestor space of black nurses. Saying that they get off on black men in pain and police shootings. Keep thinking that bs is only online.

People in here will compare this to dudes not wanting to date black women.

I sometimes think black men don't even see themselves as human.

If we don't who will?

 

[J Money]

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Comment section is wild

 

[Shadow King]

U don't know that. There are lids for every pot.

I do know that. Lids think they're better than they are. I'm tired of grown men believing other grown men struggle by being 5s waiting on 9s.

 

[Uachet]

I said black men do it on a world stage. When white men slander their women, they aren’t putting them down for their hair, features, and inferiority to other races of women. They actually have high racial self esteem. Their hatred is misogyny. Not hatred of self.

However *many* black men make it VERY clear to the WORLD that they do not desire black features on their women. To the point now that’s it’s a cliche in pop culture.

I mean, you want to get to the root of the issue, you have to start there. Those black girls/women are “divesting” and crashing out because they are hurt. Anger is a secondary emotion. Btw I am not justifying what has been said, but rather contextualizing it.

You are also assuming that it started only with one sex, which is also wrong. Talk to those men and ask them about their mothers. Ask them how their own mothers treated them, acted towards them, acted towards the men in their lives, and you will also see a lot of patterns. The problem is a circular one, that neither sex holds the bulk of the responsibility for. Both are responsible for these outcomes we are seeing, in equal measures.

Those men who think it is only the women's fault, are wrong. Those women who think it is only the men's fault are wrong. Both participated in this situation, and both have been hurt by this situation. An inability to see that or a need to point the finger in only one direction just exposes the bias of the person pointing the finger.