Can we have an earnest discussion about the femcel issue we have in the Black community?

[Wiseborn]

I said black men do it on a world stage. When white men slander their women, they aren’t putting them down for their hair, features, and inferiority to other races of women. They actually have high racial self esteem. Their hatred is misogyny. Not hatred of self.

However *many* black men make it VERY clear to the WORLD that they do not desire black features on their women. To the point now that’s it’s a cliche in pop culture.

I mean, you want to get to the root of the issue, you have to start there. Those black girls/women are “divesting” and crashing out because they are hurt. Anger is a secondary emotion. Btw I am not justifying what has been said, but rather contextualizing it.

all Black people are imprinted with self hate because all Black people deal with white supremacy globally.

 

[K.O.N.Y]

Is NigNog the Kenyan form of Akata?

Every day I regret sending Sally Strothers my milk money to save them from the flies and pot bellies.

We don’t have a femcel issue in the so-called black American community, we have a tether problem.

THIS 100%

An enormous percentage of the so called gender wars are really anti-black american vitriol and contempt guised as gender grievances

the sooner the "blanket blacks" realize this the better. We got folks slinging "statistics"(read white supramacy report cards) FBA/ADOS men arguing with FBA women over the effects of slavery and the civil rights era in here

 

[Wiseborn]

Yeah it's really wild to sit up here and shyt on kids, especially at that age. Like it takes a special kind of pure hatred.

It’s something only a true racist would do or say so it was probably a white racist behind the post.

 

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It’s something only a true racist would do or say so it was probably a white racist behind the post.

Yeah even if she harbored those kind of thoughts, it's kinda hard for me to believe any ADOS female would make that kind of a post.

Can't really speak on foreign flag gang tho.

 

[Wiseborn]

Black women are 2.5 times more likely to be killed by their partner than any other race. 9 times out of 10 a black woman knows her killer.

Source: Violence Against Black Women – Many Types, Far-reaching Effects - IWPR

So, I'm sorry, when y'all try very hard to make this an "equal" experience that's where you all lose me. That's not to say what Black men don't experience from black women isn't real, but that poster isn't wrong.

It is equal because Black women are just as likely to be violent to Black Men.

I don’t have the stats ginned up but based on Police reports this is the case.

 

[FOUR_ONE_TWO]

@Uachet great points, people here are spreading their usual bullshyt justifications for these stuff again.

It's called cause and effect, and he illustrated that point clearly. Props to him.

But a lot of mfs sit here and act like these behaviors from both sexes come out of nowhere. Not anywhere in these first five pages did I see any of you nikkas offer up the explanation of maybe black men's own behaviors within the community having an effect on how black women see them. Yall immediately jump to Stockholm syndrome for white people, and whatever the fukk else, instead of starting in-house. That's why I brought up that point. Nowhere was I justifying or condoning anybody's actions.

You nikkas really think that because somebody speaks up for one side or the other, then we must be condoning or justifying something. No, ALL of this shyt is a problem and black folks as a whole need to get off the internet with it.

 

[tuckgod]

THIS 100%

An enormous percentage of the so called gender wars are really anti-black american vitriol and contempt guised as gender grievances

the sooner the "blanket blacks" realize this the better. We got folks slinging "statistics"(read white supramacy report cards) FBA/ADOS men arguing with FBA women over the effects of slavery and the civil rights era in here

 

[Wiseborn]

Yeah even if she harbored those kind of thoughts, it's kinda hard for me to believe any ADOS female would make that kind of a post.

Can't really speak on foreign flag gang tho.

don’t put a weird justification on it. No group of people would demonize children of their own race. An African wouldn’t demonize a Black Boy as an asian would not demonize an asian boy.

Even if you’re an advocate for Black American people harboring a negative of foreign Black people just because they are Black and foreign to you is c00nish thinking.

That’s like saying Africans have lower IQ’s than Black americans or something.

 

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don’t put a weird justification on it. No group of people would demonize children of their own race. An African wouldn’t demonize a Black Boy as an asian would not demonize an asian boy.

Even if you’re an advocate for Black American people harboring a negative of foreign Black people just because they are Black and foreign to you is c00nish thinking.

That’s like saying Africans have lower IQ’s than Black americans or something.

Nah it's acknowledging that they might not see themselves as black in the first place so they might not see that child as one of "theirs"

 

[FOUR_ONE_TWO]

It is equal because Black women are just as likely to be violent to Black Men.

I don’t have the stats ginned up but based on Police reports this is the case.

I'm not even trying to harp too much on that point because that wasn't necessarily my whole argument. But bro, killing your women at a rate 2.5 higher than any other race is not an equal experience. Not even close.

Can black women be violent and abusive? Absolutely.

 

[Wiseborn]

It's called cause and effect, and he illustrated that point clearly. Props to him.

But a lot of mfs sit here and act like these behaviors from both sexes come out of nowhere. Not anywhere in these first five pages did I see any of you nikkas offer up the explanation of maybe black men's own behaviors within the community having an effect on how black women see them. Yall immediately jump to Stockholm syndrome for white people, and whatever the fukk else, instead of starting in-house. That's why I brought up that point. Nowhere was I justifying or condoning anybody's actions.

You nikkas really think that because somebody speaks up for one side or the other, then we must be condoning or justifying something. No, ALL of this shyt is a problem and black folks as a whole need to get off the internet with it.

Not even disagreeing with you but the idea that Black women suffer from stockholm syndrome is false but something is wrong with Black Men.

I mean if you’re saying that #bothgenders deal with white supremacy then I could rock with that but zero problem with Blaming Black Men but some how Black women are not affected.

Again I’m saying #bothgenders deal with this. I was gonna bring up an example based on an old law but I’m not trying to gender war in here.

 

[Wiseborn]

Nah it's acknowledging that they might not see themselves as black in the first place so they might not see that child as one of "theirs"

Think about what you’re saying here.

I know what you mean you mean they don’t see themselves in some social Political shyt with people they don’t know. No people from Georgetown Guyana ain’t really thinking about people from Georgetown South Carolina and vice versa but it’s wild to think that people from either Georgetowns don’t think there Black.

 

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Think about what you’re saying here.

I know what you mean you mean they don’t see themselves in some social Political shyt with people they don’t know. No people from Georgetown Guyana ain’t really thinking about people from Georgetown South Carolina and vice versa but it’s wild to think that people from either Georgetowns don’t think there Black.

I'm saying people who come from countries without the black/white dynamic have different views on identity than people who've been in countries with that dynamic for multiple generations

 

[Wiseborn]

I'm saying people who come from countries without the black/white dynamic have different views on identity than people who've been in countries with that dynamic for multiple generations

That’s not even true Black Guyanese people go through it from the Indian majority.

But you didn’t know that because it’s not your concern just like police brutality in Georgetown South Carolina is not Guyanese Black people’s main concern.

 

[tuckgod]

don’t put a weird justification on it. No group of people would demonize children of their own race. An African wouldn’t demonize a Black Boy as an asian would not demonize an asian boy.

Even if you’re an advocate for Black American people harboring a negative of foreign Black people just because they are Black and foreign to you is c00nish thinking.

That’s like saying Africans have lower IQ’s than Black americans or something.

Africans still enslave other Africans what in the fukk are you talking about nikka.