frankly i think you cant have the debate without mentioning consent, because it plays too big of a part in it. i read the OP again and even tho i cant say that i really disagree with it, i still think ppl are born how they areI know where I live.... being gay isn't an issue.
However, consent is irrelevant when speaking of desires..... like women who have rape fantasies, people who like animal p*ssy, etc..... The OP was talking about the mentality without action.
and i have kids, so I'm condoning ANY of this shyt...... but I think the point of the thread is that if a sexual disorder is a disorder then they all should be considered that.
the other thing (personally) is that a large segment of the anti-'born this way' argument is ignorant christians, a group that i could never cosign