Can any man who has experience with women break down the meaning of this fb post ?
- Thread starter BrothaZay
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She has degrees and a career and a little kid
What did your child father offer and provided for u , for u to have a child with him
What did your child father offer and provided for u , for u to have a child with him
In my experience. Women just want you to listen to them vent. and be empathetic. they don't want solutions they want sympathy.
When i actually try to fix the shyt they complain about, they tell me i'm not listen or i don't get it.
Her "my tummy hurts"
Me "I can get you tums. Maybe you should avoid eating so much ice cream?"
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Brehs. She not talking about advice.
To her: the "problem" is
I want my hair done
The solution is:
Some dude to pay for it.
Y'all are right when it comes to trying to tell them helpful things. They never wanna hear that.
But having someone pay for them is very important.
IWasntMadeToPlayTheSon
Mutant Mindframe
Nah she wants a man who can lead/someone she feels is worthy of her submitting to….
blues_funk_reggae
Veteran
100%
I'll also add this, when her problem is a bill, she wants a man to come in and crash out financially and pay it....without ever asking her questions or holding her accountable.
Damn, you behind on this bill again?
I thought we went over this last month, what happened?
Didn't you tell me you make a great salary and all those degrees you mentioned?
She ain't trying to hear any of this, just pay mah bills, that's the solution.
Black Mamba
Superstar
Solutions men don’t have
She goes to the wind
Fleeting like a leaf away from a tree
Soundless
She goes to the wind
Fleeting like a leaf away from a tree
Soundless
HTXBreh
Superstar
Solutions= I will pay for this
Bingo
If u look at her Facebook she hypes up her degrees and her 2 year old daughter
So right now she only want the top 10% of 100k plus men and if u are even debt free and say u make 60/70k a year she the type to laughed at u..
But I guarantee her baby daddy wasn’t close to even making that
HTXBreh
Superstar
Baby daddy mite be a older man and married this type of women don't care as long as he fits the salary and status requirements
this is nebulous phrasing, lead could be finances, more directive and assertive conduct or any number of reasons
IWasntMadeToPlayTheSon
Mutant Mindframe
That's how men talk to women to give themselves wiggle room to lie out of a jam lol.…
One day you'll understand us as well as we get you