Bruhs and Brehettes...My best friend (a woman) today asked me the big question we've both been yearning for...

[Fanservice]

Y’all must be young as hell. If that’s the case, just do whatever. Just know these types of relationships usually never last because the woman in this situation knows she can have her cake and eat it too. After she’s no longer curious about what it would be like to be with you, she’s gonna break it off when she catch feelings for another nikka. And when she got her a new breh, she’ll be content with you orbiting as her “best friend”.

I’ve been in this situation before when I was younger. It’s like being in a weird state between side nikka and the friendzone. I would just recommend that you don’t go into this with the hopes of it turning into a long-term thing. Have fun and be a solid dude to her, but don’t get too attached right away

 

[Caribbean lover]

Op is either gullible or just naive. Regardless the same way she was telling you everything about her relationship with her ex she will do the same with her next male best friend. You have been warned.

 

[brickfare]

that first throat pie you give that bytch is gonna be epic

had to remember my password and log in just to dap this post LMFAO

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

How many guys she had sex with while y’all were besties?

 

[Rozay Oro]

I’m happy for you and jelly . That’s boo now, chill out nikka

 

[Oatmeal]

Also make sure you taking your Zinc, Pygeum, L-Arginine, and Lecithin, once you hit while you got that all in your system she ain't leaving

 

[Methuselah]

Congratulations! You’re patience paid off. There’s no way you became best friends with bytch you met a year ago. You played the long game, and it payed off. Nikka waited in the cut for a year . A word of caution though. Did you become friends before she had a boyfriend or after, because that’s some foul shyt if she cultivated a friendship with another nikka while currently in a relationship.

 

[Crude]

I initially thought this was but I don’t know now.

In the case that it’s not, it sounds like old girl is using you threadstarter.

You aren’t her first or second choice. You are the emotional support guy as someone else already mentioned. She comes to you in between relationships when who she really wants isn’t acting right or giving her what she wants.

Her interest in you will not last either, you are good for right now, but eventually another man she likes better will come along and you’ll be replaced. You sound a little naive to female nature. If you aren’t her first choice from the jump then you likely never will be first choice.

 

[MaxBundles]

Lol you’re going to lose your fukking mind when she has a new male “friend”

Lmao this, this and more this!! 100% facts.

 

[Concerned Citizen]

Best of luck OP but this is some Dear Diary Boy Meets World type shyt…

 

[MrSpook]

Your ole lady supposed to be your best friend.

Just continue the bond and vibe that’s already there and the rest will come naturally G.

 

[Bubba T]

Best of luck OP but this is some Dear Diary Boy Meets World type shyt…

Not gonna lie, I read the OP and thought this was a different plot line to The Best Man

 

[Rekkapryde]

You do everything you did then, except now you get some p*ssy for your effort

the end.

 

[SheWantTheD]

Her ex didn't have standards. I was better than him and you wanna know why? He was jobless and hung out on the street all day with his friends. She was embarrassed of him.

They only dated for like two months lol I knew her before him.

Haaaaaaaaa

 

[SheWantTheD]

She never had sex with him cause she literally had me in the loop of their relationship which is why he felt some way about me.

I knew everything they were doing.

See there's a lot of shyt to be said to give y'all the full picture. It's not what y'all think. There's some important details I've been holding back in this thread on cause it's soo much.

Your friend now turned girlfriend is a walking red flag lol.

But I think the story is