Bruhs and Brehettes...My best friend (a woman) today asked me the big question we've both been yearning for...

[Coco Loco]

My dude…. If it’s one thing I learned from my Love Doctor @Coco Loco

Is that, your WIFE, Girlfriends, Significant Other IS and should be your best friend.

So just don’t overthink it and don’t be weird.

That’s a fact lol

 

[YOGEBEAR09]

It's not ducktails. It's just a lot of shyt to go back on that I'm not in the mood to be writing all that.

I'm just tryna keep it short.
I'm 26 but I will admit I still have some immaturity in me.

You 26 with this shyt, immature aint the word, you a fukking dork ass nikka

 

[ORDER_66]

This ain't gonna end well for the OP but whatever...

 

[DEAD7]

Lol you’re going to lose your fukking mind when she has a new male “friend”

 

[DonB90]

In no way is this going to end well for you

 

[DTXwavey_02]

She never had sex with him cause she literally had me in the loop of their relationship which is why he felt some way about me.

I knew everything they were doing.

See there's a lot of shyt to be said to give y'all the full picture. It's not what y'all think. There's some important details I've been holding back in this thread on cause it's soo much.

Believe what women say brehs

 

[ndthentherewasx]

Like another poster said

You're over thinking it.

She's yours now. Enjoy.

 

[CouldntBeMeTho]

Believe what say women brehs

He really believes that shyt

 

[Child_Of_God]

This new site design sort of sucks ass imo.

 

[DTXwavey_02]

My nikka finna get his heart broken, I can already tell

 

[#1 pick]

...after months of underlying feelings of love and tension.

So I and my best friend have been friends for about a year and during our friendship, there's always been some (good) tension and feelings of love. We both “secretly” fell in love with each other but never pursued a relationship because her code was she didn't think best friends should date BUT all that changed months ago...

Months ago, she had a boyfriend that undeniably jealous of me due to the fact every day she spent more time with me and gave me the most attention. They broke up for other reasons but I believe a part of it was because of me. I'd go into more detail but I don't want this to be too long.

Fast forward to today, this afternoon she asked me to be her BOYFRIEND and I gladly accepted and now as I type this we're sending flirty texts to each other but...

MY QUESTION IS how do I transition from being her BEST FRIEND to now being her BOYFRIEND cause ya know cause I wanna call her the usual “babe, bae, boo” type of shyt without sounding all awkward and shyt cause we used to call each other best friend every time we spoke or text and now it's different.

It's easy to do. My best friend is my wife.

 

[MajesticLion]

People are going to take full advantage of the lack of rep/neg options to post all kinds of rubbish...sheesh.

 

[African Peasant]

My dude…. If it’s one thing I learned from my Love Doctor @Coco Loco

Is that, your WIFE, Girlfriends, Significant Other IS and should be your best friend.

So just don’t overthink it and don’t be weird.

Nope.

 

[Tres Leches]

 

[High Art]

Continue to be yourself. She fell for the you who you are being now and not some promise of someone she has never seen, met, or interacted with. Becoming someone else from a personality standpoint, changing considerably can easily ruin a relationship and make things weird. Continue to be yourself and continue to get them draws.