Bruhs and Brehettes...My best friend (a woman) today asked me the big question we've both been yearning for...

[LadyJ2]

I forgot to mention how she introduced me to her family (cousins, sisters, nieces, and nephews) and friends, and yet she desperately wants me to meet her mother.

When she was with her boyfriend she kept him a secret and didn't even want her family to know who he was and that he even existed on top of that she's given me her Facebook/messenger passwords, etc told me personal secrets she never told her ex or family members.

I wasn't your “typical friend zone” some of y'all call it...I never was friend-zoned the feelings have been deep and I guess today she decided to make it official after months of stalling her true feelings she couldn't keep resisting me.

My husband doesn’t even have my FB/messenger passwords lol. Why would he need them? It’s Facebook!

I’m not trying to rain on your parade. You asked a question so I assumed you wanted answers.

She didn’t tell her friends/family about her ex because he had standards. And meeting her friends/family would likely lower his view of her.

Also, men decide commitment so what do you mean “she decided to make it official?” Are you also going to wait for her to decide other areas of your life?

 

[CouldntBeMeTho]

I forgot to mention how she introduced me to her family (cousins, sisters, nieces, and nephews) and friends, and yet she desperately wants me to meet her mother.

When she was with her boyfriend she kept him a secret and didn't even want her family to know who he was and that he even existed on top of that she's given me her Facebook/messenger passwords months ago, etc told me personal secrets she never told her ex or family members.

I wasn't your “typical friend zone” some of y'all call it...I never was friend-zoned the feelings have been deep and I guess today she decided to make it official after months of stalling her true feelings she couldn't keep resisting me.

I wanna neg you so bad right now. Goofy ass motherfukker

 

[downtheline]

If she did that to her ex, watch out that she doesn't repeat her actions with you

 

[Antwon Mitchell]

My husband doesn’t even have my FB/messenger passwords lol. Why would he need them? It’s Facebook!

I’m not trying to rain on your parade. You asked a question so I assumed you wanted answers.

She didn’t tell her friends/family about her ex because he had standards. And meeting her friends/family would likely lower his view of her.

Also, men decide commitment so what do you mean “she decided to make it official?” Are you also going to wait for her to decide other areas of your life?

Her ex didn't have standards. I was better than him and you wanna know why? He was jobless and hung out on the street all day with his friends. She was embarrassed of him.

They only dated for like two months lol I knew her before him.

 

[Vodun]

Do you have a contingency plan if she ends up getting a male best friend during this relationship?

Because THIS WILL HAPPEN. As they say she is not yours but its your turn. Congratz but real talk i would not trust that on some playa shyt. She had you as the back up just in case shyt don't work out with the nikka she wanted. You are dealing with a choosey susie breh

 

[Max Power]

Are you in school?

 

[RaspberryFitted]

Her ex didn't have standards. I was better than him and you wanna know why? He was jobless and hung out on the street all day with his friends. She was embarrassed of him.

They only dated for like two months lol I knew her before him.

If you knew her before him, why did she pick him instead you? Especially since y’all had such a “strong unspoken love” for each other

 

[The ADD]

Her ex didn't have standards. I was better than him and you wanna know why? He was jobless and hung out on the street all day with his friends. She was embarrassed of him.

They only dated for like two months lol I knew her before him.

I mean she decided to date him so she’s not absolved here breh

 

[FcKuPaYmE]

Her ex didn't have standards. I was better than him and you wanna know why? He was jobless and hung out on the street all day with his friends. She was embarrassed of him.

They only dated for like two months lol I knew her before him.

But you knew her first and that bum was fukking her and you werent.

Congrats breh

 

[Prince.Skeletor]

MY QUESTION IS how do I transition from being her BEST FRIEND to now being her BOYFRIEND cause ya know cause I wanna call her the usual “babe, bae, boo” type of shyt without sounding all awkward and shyt cause we used to call each other best friend every time we spoke or text and now it's different.

Anal.
It's the fastest way to break the friend zone bubble
And stick your finger in her butthole, smell it, lick it and even stick your nose inside of it.

Friends NEVER do that!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[010101]

you are not bestfriends

you are just the emotional support nikka

she is not being totally honest with you

you setting yourself up for heartbreak

you still in your teens or something¿

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[Vodun]

Her ex didn't have standards. I was better than him and you wanna know why? He was jobless and hung out on the street all day with his friends. She was embarrassed of him.

They only dated for like two months lol I knew her before him.

yep SHE CHOOSE HIM BEFORE YOU. women off rip know who they want to fukk with breh. did yall ever fukk before all this? no hate breh i just don't want you to get played out here in these streets. Female nature is a mothfuka you feel me? Women can't love a man like a man loves women.

Also you think she didn't know he was a bum off rip? i bet she she saw potential in him and wanted to change him into the type of dude she wanted so she could show him to her parents.

 

[Antwon Mitchell]

But you knew her first and that bum was fukking her and you werent.

Congrats breh

She never had sex with him cause she literally had me in the loop of their relationship which is why he felt some way about me.

I knew everything they were doing.

See there's a lot of shyt to be said to give y'all the full picture. It's not what y'all think. There's some important details I've been holding back in this thread on cause it's soo much.

 

[CouldntBeMeTho]

Her ex didn't have standards. I was better than him and you wanna know why? He was jobless and hung out on the street all day with his friends. She was embarrassed of him.

They only dated for like two months lol I knew her before him.

So she was fukking a thug and now she decided to throw it to the safe friend after getting ran through huh

 

[CouldntBeMeTho]

She never had sex with him cause she literally had me in the loop of their relationship which is why he felt some way about me.

I knew everything they were doing.

See there's a lot of shyt to be said to give y'all the full picture. It's not what y'all think. There's some important details I've been holding back in this thread on cause it's soo much.

I'm sensing ducktales