Bruhs and Brehettes...My best friend (a woman) today asked me the big question we've both been yearning for...

[Xcenai]

...Months ago, she had a boyfriend that undeniably jealous of me due to the fact every day she spent more time with me and gave me the most attention....

I've been thru this with an ex. she never liked the guy but it still irked me the wrong way

fukk you op and this stupid bytch

 

[Antwon Mitchell]

Lol you’re going to lose your fukking mind when she has a new male “friend”

Nah, see I was the only male friend she had she don't have much friends and the few she has are all women.

You sound crazy calling the boyfriend jealous....he was reasonably upset at your friend zoned ass spending more time with his girl....he probably dumped her and now she want to get with you after getting dumped......you need to dub her shyt cause she gonna leave you the second she get a better offer.

Nah she been feeling me for a long even while she was with her boyfriend at the time and he knew that's why he became jealous of me.

 

[Nagarjuna]

How does any thinking, heterosexual Adult not understand being "best friends" with the opposite sex leads to feelings of emotional attachment and intimacy lol

 

[Oatmeal]

...after months of underlying feelings of love and tension.

So I and my best friend have been friends for about a year and during our friendship, there's always been some (good) tension and feelings of love. We both “secretly” fell in love with each other but never pursued a relationship because her code was she didn't think best friends should date BUT all that changed months ago...

Months ago, she had a boyfriend that undeniably jealous of me due to the fact every day she spent more time with me and gave me the most attention. They broke up for other reasons but I believe a part of it was because of me. I'd go into more detail but I don't want this to be too long.

Fast forward to today, this afternoon she asked me to be her BOYFRIEND and I gladly accepted and now as I type this we're sending flirty texts to each other but...

MY QUESTION IS how do I transition from being her BEST FRIEND to now being her BOYFRIEND cause ya know cause I wanna call her the usual “babe, bae, boo” type of shyt without sounding all awkward and shyt cause we used to call each other best friend every time we spoke or text and now it's different.

All i know is......You gotta eat that thang to keep that thang.....if you do it right you can call her anything! She'll answer to Ursula if you keep her satisfied.

 

[Ghost Utmost]

Next time you see her kiss her.

That should follow its own path to the bed.

Watch out for her male homies

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

man that's crazy

 

[CouldntBeMeTho]

Nah, see I was the only male friend she had she don't have much friends and the few she has are all women.
Nah she been feeling me for a long even while she was with her boyfriend at the time and he knew that's why he became jealous of me.

Sounds like he had good reason to be suspicious. It's not jealousy if it's true tho lol. It's prudent.

 

[old pig]

that first throat pie you give that bytch is gonna be epic

 

[Bigen King]

So you was dirty mackin for 12 months and all your effort finally paid off..

 

[LadyJ2]

...after months of underlying feelings of love and tension.

So I and my best friend have been friends for about a year and during our friendship, there's always been some (good) tension and feelings of love. We both “secretly” fell in love with each other but never pursued a relationship because her code was she didn't think best friends should date BUT all that changed months ago...

Months ago, she had a boyfriend that undeniably jealous of me due to the fact every day she spent more time with me and gave me the most attention. They broke up for other reasons but I believe a part of it was because of me. I'd go into more detail but I don't want this to be too long.

Fast forward to today, this afternoon she asked me to be her BOYFRIEND and I gladly accepted and now as I type this we're sending flirty texts to each other but...

MY QUESTION IS how do I transition from being her BEST FRIEND to now being her BOYFRIEND cause ya know cause I wanna call her the usual “babe, bae, boo” type of shyt without sounding all awkward and shyt cause we used to call each other best friend every time we spoke or text and now it's different.

There is NO WAY out of the friend zone for men just as there is NO WAY out of the smash zone for women. You either are chosen or not.

She is using you for attention. Her boyfriend probably dumped her because no self-respecting man would cuff a chick with a male best friend unless he was a proven homosexual.

 

[Save $ not Hoes]

Bring negs back asap. My gawd

 

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

Don't do anything different.

That's how it SHOULD be.​

 

[Jazzy B.]

You sound like a rebound.

Be very cautious breh.

 

[Antwon Mitchell]

I forgot to mention how she introduced me to her family (cousins, sisters, nieces, and nephews) and friends, and yet she desperately wants me to meet her mother.

When she was with her boyfriend she kept him a secret and didn't even want her family to know who he was and that he even existed on top of that she's given me her Facebook/messenger passwords months ago, etc told me personal secrets she never told her ex or family members.

I wasn't your “typical friend zone” some of y'all call it...I never was friend-zoned the feelings have been deep and I guess today she decided to make it official after months of stalling her true feelings she couldn't keep resisting me.

There is NO WAY out of the friend zone for men just as there is NO WAY out of the smash zone for women. You either are chosen or not.

She is using you for attention. Her boyfriend probably dumped her because no self-respecting man would cuff a chick with a male best friend unless he was a proven homosexual.

 

[The ADD]

I forgot to mention how she introduced me to her family (cousins, sisters, nieces, and nephews) and friends, and yet she desperately wants me to meet her mother.

When she was with her boyfriend she kept him a secret and didn't even want her family to know who he was and that he even existed on top of that she's given me her Facebook/messenger passwords months ago, etc told me personal secrets she never told her ex or family members.

I wasn't your “typical friend zone” some of y'all call it...I never was friend-zoned the feelings have been deep and I guess today she decided to make it official after months of stalling her true feelings she couldn't keep resisting me.

You might have a nutty one on your hands. Act accordingly.