That’s actually MY issue with women as well
I caused a ruckus in my family recently because of this exact issue and my mother told me to stop blaming family and it’s about “personal responsibility”.
I’ve had bad things happen to me that, when I turned to my mother to share my story she said “oh, yea, that happened to me too.”
I wanted to fukking scream because everything I’ve experienced is what she experienced but she didn’t say anything.
I got closer to one of my aunts recently and she was like “Well, I have a different philosophy. I believe all the kids in the family should know everything so that you can make better informed decisions”. Mad ppl in my family keep up a facade and wonder why their kids act out or aren’t getting the results they expect in their personal lives.
Renner and Stephens are what happens when women aren’t taught about how to deal with male attention, and aren’t taught about the importance of a woman’s reputation. Being beautiful is a major cheat code if you know how to use it.
The caveat is that they are attractive, plus light/mixed, so they get some passes the average woman wouldn’t.
Beauty allows you to build and get far ahead while the only thing people want to focus on is your looks. By the time your looks fade, you should already be sitting pretty in life. But if you don’t put that beauty to work while you have it, it’s seen as a waste because it was a gift from nature that most don’t receive.
Someone like Beyonce is a great example. She definitely focused on and enhanced her beauty while young, which made her memorizing. All the celebrities wanted her.
But she was smart and raised by a smart woman. She worked on her craft AND married her equal/superior in her field. Now she’s going through her phase of being the ultimate beauty, gotten married, created a family, is still considered “queen” of the industry, etc.
Jay wasn’t the only guy she dated, but she was wise enough to guard her reputation. She could’ve gone public with several different affairs, but she had the proper guidance.
Blake Lively is another one. Beautiful girl who cashed out with a gorgeous, successful actor- Ryan Reynolds.
Hell, it ended now, but Gisele Bundchen, too! Top supermodel who didn’t play the field forever. Created a family with the GOAT NFL player.
All beautiful women who understood how to use their beauty to their advantage.
The Renners and Stephens are the ones who didn’t get the proper nurturing and guidance. So while they understand men, their understanding came from negative experiences, which makes them relate to/deal with men negatively.
My support for women being smart and equal to men mentally...
comes form the thinking that if women also concentrate on being doctors, scientists, presidents...
the world progresses faster and further....
that is more minds working towards world peace, nuclear fusion, space travel, cancer solutions
a poster referenced his daughter yesterday on how she gave him a certain perspective....
women are already women so there is no excuse...
even now, the men are going at blackpearl and not asking themselves why she angry or bitter
was she not one of the most dm'd women on here at a point?
the most discussed and chased after?
in their face they are seeing what women go through
when styles change
when middle age approaches
the realisation that men are full of shyt and are mostly just horny
that if 20 men tell a woman they love her and all 20 lie
she might feel a certain way
guidance as you point to with beyonce and blake
it is interestig that if karrine got the right guidance or desired to
she might have been able to get pregnant for jayz or more