When me and my mom were on bad terms, she said during an argument "you're the reason all your friends are gonna become failures".
She knew that was one of my biggest fears at the time, that I led my friends down the wrong path, she was the only person that I ever opened up to about that.
After that I realized that I'll probably never ever open up completely to a woman ever again, because you never know what type of venom they can sling when angry.
Knowledge of self has kinda made me get over that though.
Recently she tried to retcon and revise history saying she meant it as "You take care of your friends too much for them to ever grow as men" and she said it from a place of love, but nah I knew she meant it to hurt me.