Brehs, I love black women.

[Koba St]

What do you want, a fukking medal?

 

[Space Cowboy]

I agree. That's why it's fukked when you find out black women are more submissive to white bois.

It really isn't when you learn human nature and game. If you have an open mind I can articulate why.

 

[ItsPeople]

What do you want, a fukking medal?

This is the part where an otherwise uplifting thread goes off the rails

 

[Doomsday]

It really isn't when you learn human nature and game. If you have an open mind I can articulate why.

Speak on it, my brotha.

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

I agree. That's why it's fukked when you find out black women are more submissive to white bois.

 

[Silver Surfer]

 

[skylove4]

No sex before marriage. Cannot even touch her before signing the contract. If you go on a date it must be in public. No private shenanigans. She is to be escorted with her wali (guardian) and protected and he must approve of the courtship.

Rep for the thread premise

But to the above explanation of y’all courtship practices https://media.tenor.com/NKO9zN6OzDIAAAAC/steve-buscemi-fukk-all-that.gif

 

[Magic Mulatto]

That’s that shyt, OP…

I wish more Black men felt this way…

Even as a half-breed, I have moments with emotions like the ones encapsulated in your post…

But oftentimes, I find myself leaning too much into fetishization and objectification so I keep my distance out of respect…

 

[Kasgoinjail]

Love black men, make me melt like

 

[Space Cowboy]

Speak on it, my brotha.

Sure.

In an ideal world we would love black women to just naturally submit to us. But that's not the case. Consider submission like respect: it's something to be earned, not begged or bartered.

Unfortunately for us, this is a white man's world and a woman's nature is to seek the highest tier, strongest men. This is why Asian women do Olympic track and field jumps to bag a white man: social capital. It's also why, for the most part, white women are compliant to white men. Essentially, white men have conquered and you must accept that they have conquered and are seen as number one. We were enslaved and subjected to Jim Crow and emasculated. As much as I'm pro-black, that's a bad record for our men and men are supposed to protect women. Think of it from a woman's eyes. So unfortunately, we as black men, must prove we are worth following to a black woman. You as a man must always prove your worth to any women, but black women will rightfully have a stronger filter.

Women can't help it. Allah embued them with this as a defense mechanism. It's in their nature. So when they say,"I don't need no man" it's a lie. A facade. A mask in order to protect her from hurt because she was disappointed by so many men in her life. When sociologically studied, it can be used as warfare against populations. In their studies, white people have used all of this against black people to further divide us as they use human nature and women's nature against by taking black fathers out of the picture with mass incarceration, things like red lining;etc. This makes the women more masculine and then the men don't know how to handle it. The result? Families destroyed. Doesn't help that black culture overwhelmingly infantilizes boys and has lower standards on them than the girls. This is also why black women, and to a lesser extent latino women, go for gangsters: because historically they have lacked protection. For a defense mechanism they go for not just masculine men, but hyper masculine men. It's an over correction. Being masculine just doesn't cut it. In a black woman's eyes, a gangsta is more capable of protecting her even if it's wrong. But it doesn't matter because it's how she feels.

So in order to get the submission you crave from black women you have to show you're worthy of it. Once that falls into place black women are much easier to "tame" and you don't get problems from the vast majority of them. The majority of black women just want a real black man and some masculine energy so that they can finally breathe in a world that demands they lift everything up on their shoulders. Women say they're strong. The truth is that women don't want to be. Strength is what a man is for.

 

[Doomsday]

This is also why black women, and to a lesser extent latino women, go for gangsters: because historically they have lacked protection. For a defense mechanism they go for not just masculine men, but hyper masculine men. Being masculine just doesn't cut it. In a black woman's eyes, a gangsta is more capable of protecting her even if it's wrong. But it doesn't matter because it's how she feels.

Understandable, but also ironic, considering that most black gangsters are actually feminine.

 

[010101]

..........*

 

[Space Cowboy]

Understandable, but also ironic, considering that most black gangsters are actually feminine.

I agree. Extremely emotional and die over stupid shyt. But to a black woman in the hood, he's hard.

 

[MoveForward]

But they're easily some of the kindest, tender hearted women if you come across as a man and don't view them as a threat.

This is bullsh*t and they’re only nice to men they want to fukk and male family members (ONLY if he acquiesces to her every demand and is on standby to be an attack dog). The average black woman has an innate hatred for black men, especially if their father wasn’t in the household.

 

[Space Cowboy]

This is bullsh*t and they’re only nice to men they want to fukk and male family members (ONLY if he acquiesces to her every demand and is on standby to be an attack dog). The average black woman has an innate hatred for black men, especially if their father wasn’t in the household.

You should take your Username's advice and move forward. Put your pain behind you. The woman I'm courting didn't have a father in her life and she's feminine as shyt. Most women period won't be nice to you unless they what the D, so why are you making an exception for black women? Very sus.

Work on your voice, your walk, look women (and men) in the eyes, tell them what to do. They will love you and call you daddy.