Brehs and brehettes who are married or in a relationship. Where did you meet your spouse? Who spoke to who first?

[GoAggieGo.]

Met her in college. Same degree; was in all the same classes. She spoke first. I was the shy one. We exchanged numbers, she hit me up like a week later saying she wanted new friends to hang with. Rest was history; I took it from there. Was together 8 years, separated, then got back together last year.

 

[Sad Bunny]

Damn that’s what’s up. I don’t why I thought you were gay

I trolled so much over the years people think I’m gay but I just play into it now

We were together when I was 12 then got back together in college then broke up then got back together after college then broke up but we been locked in since we were 25 years old

 

[ReturnOfJudah]

chamillionaire.com message board. We bonded over chopped and screwed music and been together 15 years ever since

 

[shopthatwrecks]

chamillionaire.com message board. We bonded over chopped and screwed music and been together 15 years ever since

texasfinestfemale, mZjudge44 ...ms crys...it was another chick on thescrewshop n cham.. named Michelle... which one ..lol

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

She was my high school crush, and I was too afraid to talk to her. I found her on IG, and hit her up mid-pandemic, because I had nothing to lose. I got her number, and texted her first, our first date was a week later. She was very receptive, and it went from there.

I’ve never dated a woman seriously who approached me first.

 

[Amerikan Melanin]

Giving a woman YOUR number and waiting for her to hit you up is interesting to me. I can honestly say I don't try that "tactic" often.

Was this before cellphones? Can this sort of thing work in 2024?

Depends on you fam. I wasn’t thirsty at all. That night alone I had bagged 2 other women and had a roster. If she calls you she’s interested, if you are calling her you are chasing.

Yes we had cellphones it was before IG though.

 

[Uachet]

Graves Hall party on Morehouse Campus near the end of my freshman year. I asked her to dance, and she said no. Her friend then came to me and told me to ask her again when it is a slow song. 7 years later, we realized we were very good for each other and got married.

 

[ReturnOfJudah]

texasfinestfemale, mZjudge44 ...ms crys...it was another chick on thescrewshop n cham.. named Michelle... which one ..lol

don't know her screen name but her name is Monica. I gotta ask her what it was... edit she said ghettoprincess and she was on screwshop too

 

[shopthatwrecks]

don't know her screen name but her name is Monica. I gotta ask her what it was... edit she said ghettoprincess

thats crazy... small world...

it was a lot of women on cham board that was active ....n talked a lot of shyt ....

 

[ReturnOfJudah]

thats crazy... small world...

it was a lot of women on cham board that was active ....n talked a lot of shyt ....

yeah i remember slim and them flipped some hoes on the board. I had to make sure she wasn't one
You remember that redbone from Indiana that moved to Louisiana? She showed her t*ts and everybody was clowning? I think her name was Charisma... i got some stories about that hoe

 

[315]

Met at a record shop almost a couple years ago. I was on the other side of an aisle that you can see over, we smiled and greeted each other and a few moments later I saw her looking at a Lonnie Liston Smith album. In jest I said "whatchu about Lonnie " and kind hit it off from there

 

[HarlemHottie]

College. He had been peeped but I didn't know him. We ended up meeting through a mutual. I was trynna show her how to bag a nikka, so I sent him a late night email.

He responded mad regular, no thirst, we ended up talking on email damn near non stop for two weeks. Everything clicked so crazy, we had been around each other our whole lives, but never met. He won my heart through music, this was the napster era.

Somewhere in the timeline, he gave me and my people some weed, just for the turn up, no strings. When he sent 'Computer Love,' I sent back 'T shirt and Panties.' That was bout it.

 

[315]

I sent back 'T shirt and Panties.

Bein grown

 

[HarlemHottie]

Bein grown

Told yall, I was outside fr.

 

[Amerikan Melanin]

@HarlemHottie did you used to go to the JIgroup parties?