Brehettes, should i throw her in the bushes or am i reading too much into it
- Thread starter Dolla$
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That's not begging, it's being specific if that's why she said they exchanged to meet again he can initiate that then drop her if she is still being flaky with him. That way he knows for sure because he sounds like he is in question.
stop trolling meHe doesn't
anyways can u help me with the name change ? cook blocked me from sending him a pmThat's not begging, it's being specific if that's why she said they exchanged to meet again he can initiate that then drop her if she is still being flaky with him. That way he knows for sure because he sounds like he is in question.
He doesn't
Dolla$
Minus the bullsh*t...life's great
Where do you draw the line as far as a dude being needy/persistent or consistent
Needy is no response at all but still contacting me. Especially multiple times. If she is not responding at all then
If she is just busy then that's different. I have been that person before. If you want to be sure just try to set something up if she is still too busy taking forever to respond don't contact her anymore.
If she is legitimately busy than just wait until she hits you up. I mean literally just say hit me up when you have some free time and leave it at that. If she does cool if not oh well. And call, don't just text all the time...but don't leave a message. That's too much lol.
Dolla$
Minus the bullsh*t...life's great
She is done with school..she work in Human Resources
VFib
All Star
What's stopping you from picking up the phone and calling her to make definitive plans? You are actually trying to plan a date via text? She might think you may not be that interested.
She just met you. Why should she be glued to the phone? Some people actually have lives. Set up a date. If she can't do it then just tell her to let you know when she is free. Then let her initiate the next communication. You should have other things going for yourself and hopefully meeting new people. No reason to worry about one person. If she shows interest go for it. If not let it ride. No reason to "bush" someone b/c they aren't on your nuts.
Jay Kast
Hidden Royalty
I really think people underestimate this mindset.
Saves wasted energy. Why would you want to put considerably more effort into her than she does you?
Saves unnecessary stress. No need to worry, it is what it is.
Ensures you only give attention to those who deserve it.
If shes a busy person - let her be busy. No skin off your back. She missed out.
Too many fukking rules and contingencies just to get in touch. Aint nobody got time for that.
Send that chick to the bushes
This the same thing as bushes cuz most of y'all too proud/scared/irrational to initiate convo even after the onus been put on you.
Tenchi Ryu
Ashtray B!tch
Yea, my thing is that if I'm really feeling you, I'll try to make time for you even if busy. Otherwise I'm not ready to be starting a relationship anyway if I'm too busy with other life matters where a date a week is too much to ask.