brehettes, how do men ask you for money??

[DemureNatural]

i hear women complain about men asking them for loans or money
how does this go down??
i've never asked a woman for money so i can't imagine it
does it happen at dating sites??
or does he spring it on you after a couple of dates??
please share an example scenario of how a man has hit you up for cash
how much?? and did you fall for it??
appreciate any answers, thanks!!

I have a job so I don't need to ask a man for money

 

[bcrusaderw]

They don't.

 

[VFib]

I've never directly been asked for money. If a man hinted that he needed it, I'd probably refer him to his mother.

 

[miranda]

I never had a man who was not a relative ask me for money

 

[QueenSheba]

Nope, I've learned my lesson the last time I loaned a guy friend some money. Never again.

 

[Snitchin Splatter]

Hell no!

 

[Draje]

You females harsh as fukk

Breh can't ask a homegirl for $200 because his car got towed, right after he paid tution

I was getting paid weekly, I got her back next week

I expected this from @bcrusaderw but even @trilldealbaby aka wifey wouldn't hold a male friend down

 

[CinnaSlim]

Never directly, they may ask me to chip in on something that we both enjoy.

Or ask me to buy them something

If anyone ever asks me for money, it's usually "hey, can I borrow...? I'll give it back to you..."

 

[bcrusaderw]

You females harsh as fukk

Breh can't ask a homegirl for $200 because his car got towed, right after he paid tution

I was getting paid weekly, I got her back next week

I expected this from @bcrusaderw but even @trilldealbaby aka wifey wouldn't hold a male friend down

Hell no I wouldn't. Get a job. Lol.

 

[Draje]

Hell no I wouldn't. Get a job. Lol.

I was 18, at the time, and I had a job but tuition, books, parking passes, and such were expensive.

It happens to a young breh

Why yall gotta be so rude?

 

[Rawtid]

I haven't had a guy flat out ask me for a large sum of money but when I didn't know better I would pay for dates and shyt like that. Now I wouldn't give a man a nickle. I don't care if the total is $4.04 and all he has is a $20. You better break that $20

 

[bcrusaderw]

I don't even loan money to female friends. I learned that lesson the hard way.

I was 18, at the time, and I had a job but tuition, books, parking passes, and such were expensive.

It happens to a young breh

Why yall gotta be so rude?

 

[Aceofspades404]

You females harsh as fukk

Breh can't ask a homegirl for $200 because his car got towed, right after he paid tution

I was getting paid weekly, I got her back next week

I expected this from @bcrusaderw but even @trilldealbaby aka wifey wouldn't hold a male friend down

There's always exceptions to the rule but from what I've seen, that exception doesn't come around very often
Now, genuinely broke ppl I have no problem helping bc I know what it's like to have nothing and will kindly give, expecting nothing in return.
But when you're out there at every Jordan release, blowing your money then come crying at the end of the semester talking about how you need money for food, then we have a problem.
And ppl are shiesty. All the money I lent out, I never got back. I know better now

 

[September]

A man has never asked me for money. The only man I've ever asked for money is my father and I hope to keep it that way.

 

[DemureNatural]

I don't even loan money to female friends. I learned that lesson the hard way.

Me too, girl. My grandmother gave me great advice, "never loan any money you can't afford to give away". People come up with all kinds of excuses when it's time to pay the piper!