brehettes, how do men ask you for money??

[old_timer]

i hear women complain about men asking them for loans or money
how does this go down??
i've never asked a woman for money so i can't imagine it
does it happen at dating sites??
or does he spring it on you after a couple of dates??
please share an example scenario of how a man has hit you up for cash
how much?? and did you fall for it??
appreciate any answers, thanks!!

 

[thirdeye]

 

[Spike Tarantino]

From a distance

 

[old_timer]

apart from women offering to be my truckstop girlfriend
and strip club scenarios
only one woman asked me for money and she was half-serious
i had spent th enight and she woke up all business
getting dressed, about to shove me out
i was shook and tried to make a joke
and she was like "unless you can give me $600 i need to get moving!"
i mean, i didn't even have $60 so
but she listed out she had half a dozen bills due
and her paycheck would still leave her short
so i just got dressed, wished he rluck, and cleared out
later she said she had called them all,
and two places let her do payment plans
so..crisis averted
but if i actually had spare $600 that might have been weird

i've had family and male friends ask for money/loans
but that was the only woman

 

[wet landscapes]

they haven't with me before
the only thing similar is when I make eye contact or say no thank you with jamaican guys selling stuff and they pressure me until I buy something

 

[Fun Sized Psycho]

I don't understand the question.

 

[old_timer]

i'm really stressed out, @Fun Sized Pyscho
i like spending time with you and all
but i can't come see you because my car is broken down
and they're about to shut off my phone
it's so frustrating..
but verizon won't take a partial payment
they want the full $80..
i mean, i have $600 coming to me on the 29th..
but that's for my rent
if i don't pay verizon today, they'll slam me with $40 of late fees
this is so stressful!! :sad face:

..i mean, is it like that??
or is it a skype/tinychat thing where i invent children who need chemotherapy
or do i just say "yo, break me off 100 real quick"
or what??

 

[Strapped]

I don't understand the question.

really

 

[Strapped]

these females are going avoid this thread like the plague op

 

[Fun Sized Psycho]

i'm really stressed out, @Fun Sized Pyscho
i like spending time with you and all
but i can't come see you because my car is broken down
and they're about to shut off my phone
it's so frustrating..
but verizon won't take a partial payment
they want the full $80..
i mean, i have $600 coming to me on the 29th..
but that's for my rent
if i don't pay verizon today, they'll slam me with $40 of late fees
this is so stressful!! :sad face:

..i mean, is it like that??
or is it a skype/tinychat thing where i invent children who need chemotherapy
or do i just say "yo, break me off 100 real quick"
or what??

I've never had a guy ask me for money.
In the event a guy came at me like what you just wrote, I'd tell him he needs to get his shyt together before he starts trying to date.
If you can't pay your phone bill you need to focus on gettin your money right before dating.

really

I was being sarcastic.

 

[old_timer]

i mean, obviously someone who can't keep their phone turned on has issues
but c'mon.. someone had to fall for it once
particularly in that youngish 18-25 age bracket

i never had any money then so i couldn't be foolish
but like i was saying, if i wou;d've had $600 burning a hole in my pcoket
i might have tried lending it to that woman (maybe)

many coli posters were raised in middle and upper middle class backgrounds
so i figure some brehettes must have discretionary funds

 

[M'gann]

Hasn't happened .

 

[Lana del Rey]

Guys don't ask me for money at all. Well maybe homeless guys but that's about it. Never the guys that I'm in a relationship with.

 

[Aceofspades404]

They don't. they just give you a sob story hoping you offer. Won't be me though

 

[Colicat]

I'll bite.... A few years back, I was dating a coworkers family member....


After a couple of dates (hadn't even had sex) dude asked me to buy him some socks....
I was so puzzled.... I was like what negro can't buy his own socks? Hell what negro don't already have socks? Double hell, what fool would rather ask a woman to buy him some socks than wear shoes anyways and suffer in silence...

For some reason, that was a red flag for me, and I dropped him... Maybe he was testing me but I didn't care for his bizarre test/request....But no man has asked me straight out for money