Men look for women they are attracted to and like, then they mold her into what he wants her to be for him.
Women look for men who are finished products with money and status and hope he isn't corrupted by his power and success...ergo...an "a$$hole"
Looks aren't everything to a man, because men can work with what they see.
Women generally are unwilling to work with any man who isn't already at the finish line.
Just is what it is, b.
If that was true Then you wouldn't have men saying that a woman's value declines at 30.